Women defeating and humiliating men in competition?

Question

Women, have you ever defeated a man in a competition he was sure he would win, reducing his male ego to smitherreens, humiliating and wounding his pride; forcing him to submit to your superiority? Did you get a sadistic, perverted enjoyment out of the fact that the man was dealt and embarrassing defeat at the hands of you?

Men, have you ever lost to a woman that you were sure you were going to win?

I have. One was when I was younger and taking Tae Kwon Do, and had a sparring competition with a female who was about a year or two older than me. I wanted to beat her badly, but instead she frustrated me and beat me. I wanted revenge, but never did face her again so ultimately she was my conquerer.

In a chess tournament, I beat a female who was a few years younger than me. Then in a later tournament we both met in the championships, and she got her revenge, and dealt me a humiliating, embarrassing defeat while everyone was watching.

For some reason I like it. Must be S&M fetish?

Answer 1

Ummm, losing in chess and BDS&M are kinda different.

I wouldn't go spouting you like the latter quite yet.

Answer 2

I feel sorry to hear you have problems with being 'defeated' by a woman. I have 'defeated' men before in both athletic 'competition' and intellectual. Often, I don't even notice I'm competing until I see some odd reaction in the guys face. Here I thought I was having some fun while it was dead serious. *confused* I'm 1.78 and athletically built. Let's just say there's not much difference in muscle mass with a guy the same length. Without my posture and tallness, there's no way I could have done that. I've "defeated" guys in wrestling, arm wrestling, rugby, archery and spear throwing. Oddly enough, men are very good sports if you defeat them IN sports, than they are when it comes to intellectual 'defeat'. Any gal in here ever noticed that difference? In my line of work, when I meet a new guy and we find out we are interested in doing the same thing it often occurs that the guy says 'oh I do a little bit with it too'. I get all enthousiastic because I like the same subject and start chatting about it. All of a sudden I see this guys face cramp up, almost asif he has seen a ghost. It isn't even in my intention to impress the guy, as I feel no need to. Here I thought I was making a new friend, instead I just turned the guy against me. They have this dazed, glazy, confused look on their face and generally after that have trouble being relaxed. Many have been 'defeated' in the art of debate. But I wouldn't say that this is because I'd consider myself smarter. It's because I choose my issues carefully, calculate every reponse, etc. When your communication is very rational and logical, you generally have the upper hand. It appears I'm even more rational and logical than the average man. Though, truth be said, these are attributes usually said to be a man's. Their absolute weak point (and a difference from myself), is that it's harder to use logic and rationality for the goal of expressing their feelings. They get stuck that way, for business it's usually ok. That will result in 'the pouty face' quite literally. Some however, do have the self confidence to tell me 'omg you're right, i never saw it that way'. This is the type of man that earns my respect if the debate becomes 'my victory'. I'm a little averse about competing, because, I too see that I will damage my relations with men more than I would want at times. Maybe they won't directly express it like you do, or they won't even believe it that they have a problem losing to a woman. In general though, it would make my life a lot easier if men wouldn't see some things as 'competition'. Don't think that, you need to be all-round dominant for a woman to be a real man.

Answer 3

It depends on the male, to be frank. Some guys, in certain situations, believe it or not, like to lose, because this shows the feamesl control (as they would prefer in a sexual relationship). Although, most of the time, men do prefer this win because it shows their power. It is a natural thing that has to do with survival, one must kill and over power for food.

As the past as taught, and maybe the future as well, a male has more power, (espically physically, but this is a known fact). This leads to then, the idea of power and control. Wheather or not this is humiliating? Depends on the situation, and the male.

Answer 4

obviously the myth that men are the stronger sex is purely myth. they may often times be superior in strength, but im the only female in a household with three other males. im always telling them what to do and ordering them around because they all know i know whats best for them. they obviously trust my judgement and aware that a woman can be the dominant sex in most situations. let go and let girls.

Answer 5

.... The you are twisted my friend, like me. Other people the perversion level is high here, I suggest you leave.

Anyways, yes I would suggest getting into S&M. There are plenty of dominatrixes our there right now just waiting for someone to put into submission. Good luck to you, friend. Don't mind the other fools on here.

Answer 6

Women are just as good as men are. It should not be humiliating to lose to a woman, but a good experience.

Answer 7

Wow, you beat her in a chess match?She wins

Answer 8

It is a sexual problem...You like being dominated

Answer 9

A woman has never beaten me in anything.

Answer 10

uh...yes always men don't stand a chance.