my parents just told me that they wantef me out of the house and gave me my bags and shoved me out the door. they werent talking about this or anything so i didnt expect it to happen. i am 19 but have no money at all and have a minimum wage job that i only get like 10 hours a week at. i have only 2 things a mobile phone, and my truck. someone tell me what to do and how to get out of this area. This is in the middle of nowhere and negative degrees about outside this place doesnt have any homeless shelters near by and im used to living like royalty anyways
2007-01-22 14:06:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
im using a friends computer but he told me that his girl doesnt want me to be over here much longer then a couple hours
2007-01-22 14:11:30 · update #1
I feel for you. There is no need to get into why you're in this situation except to say that it is definitely a wakeup call and you may now be forced to put your life in perspective.
Sometimes situations like these force people to take control of their lives...other times, the person may not be emotionally or financially capable of doing so. Or they may not have the educational tools necessary to do so. I don't always think tough love is the right approach. Again, if the person isn't ready for the challenge, they may only dig themselves deeper into a hole.
Try making a list of things you need to do.
First, a roof over your head is the most pressing thing right now. You can always go to a Salvation Army shelter. They have people there who can help you with many of these questions.
2007-01-22 14:21:05 · answer #1 · answered by zzzzzzzzz27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can't just kick you out. There are laws that say no matter who you are, if you have been living there for X amount of time you are considered a resident, wether or not you were paying rent. If they want you out technically they would have to get you out legally through the court. The only way someone can be immediately made to leave their place of residence with no prior notice is if you commited an assault or domestic abuse and they have a restraining order or the judge or cops told you to stay away. Otherwise, go home and if they don't let you in call the cops.
2007-01-22 22:15:10 · answer #2 · answered by Kristine R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any relatives you could stay with while you talk this out with your parents?
Sounds like your parents gave you everything, which would explain why you're used to living like royalty, and never taught you the importance of initiative and getting ahead in life. Then when it got to be too much, they kicked you out.
I recommend giving them a little time to cool off, then contact them and ask if you can talk to them about some options. Maybe if they will give you another chance, you can agree to find a full time job or even pursue a career. Bring something to the table that you can talk to them about that will want them to negotiate with you. Decide what you really want to do with your life and then ask them if they would be willing to help you get it on track. I think that's your best option, because with no job and no money, you won't get far. Set a time that you would like them to allow you to live with them and prove yourself, then just do it!
2007-01-23 00:56:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but you're a big boy now and it's time to grow up. Parents have other interests other than catering to you. Apparently, you must have been clueless as to the discussions they were having with you otherwise this wouldn't have come as such a surprise. It has been my experience with parents that they really have to be pushed beyond their limit before they kick the kid out the door.
2007-01-22 22:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by marianne 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I suggest that you get off your as s and look for a job. As to where your going to stay is beyond me. See if you could stay at another friends house until you get settled. Just don't mooch off of them and offer to pay what you can while staying there.
2007-01-22 22:20:26 · answer #5 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK
So you have JUST been kicked out, you only own a phone and a truck.
You're in the middle of nowhere, there are no shelters and you are freezing.
YET YOU ARE MANAGING TO POST HERE
SOMETHING DOESN'T ADD UP
2007-01-22 22:10:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just got kicked out, have no money, but you're posting on Yahoo. Hmmm Anyway........
Do you have any relatives or friends you can stay with? That would be your best choice.
2007-01-22 22:11:00 · answer #7 · answered by isabel_ro1981 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make some money, set some goals and achieve some dreams. See my profile since yahoo doesn't like for us to relay links.
2007-01-22 23:57:39 · answer #8 · answered by jenniferjotheos 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you outside typing away? I guess you still have you computer with you... And internet. Keep posting 'til you freeeeez.
2007-01-22 22:10:31 · answer #9 · answered by Aleksey T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How do you go online now?
2007-01-22 22:08:44 · answer #10 · answered by itguru5354 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋