i got drunk 1 night and had sexual relations with my wifes sister?

Question

i was drunk so i didnt wear a condom. now she is pregnant. her husband is white and has had problems with a low sperm count in the past, so i doubt its his. I'm black, so if the baby is black, everyone will know. i want her 2 have an abortion cuz i already got 5 other kids i have to pay child support for at $100 each. she says she's thinking about it, but the longer it goes, the more i worry about her gettin attached to the kid. how can i convince her that just aborting this baby is the best thing? (her husband makes good money,so money isnt a problem 4 them). I told her that being pregnant makes her fat and she likes being skinny. I hoped that would convince her. i want her to do birth control also(i hate rubbers) so we dont have to worry about this again. i really like the sex (so did she) and dont want to give it up. if she lets the baby grow, i prolly wont have sex with her anymore because she'll be fat. that might work. what you all think? Thanks for any help.

Answer 1

You are absolute scum. You want your WIFES SISTER to go on birth control so that you can continue to have sex with her behind your wife's back.

Frankly, you both deserve for her to pop out a black baby and for everyone to find out just how horrible the two of you really are.

Grow some balls and if you want to keep a relationship going with your WIFES SISTER, then tell her husband and your wife. If you can't do that, then odviously you're not much of a man at all.

No offence.

Answer 2

Stop having sexual relations, first of all. Becoming pregnant again won't help either of you. Cheating only results in more complicated issues, like say, your wife leaving you.

It's her choice whether or not to have an abortion. Just because you'll have problems 'cause the baby'll obviously be yours doesn't mean her life has to directly become yours. But you should maybe sit down and talk with her seriously- tell her all the things you told us here rather than calling her fat. That may just end up with her resenting you completely.

Lastly, I think you should set yourself on fire in hopes that you'll rid the world of at least some waste.

Answer 3

You play you pay!!!!!!!!

I feel sorry for that poor woman that you call your wife and that poor man she calls her husband. You both should tell them now what you did and hope they don't take you too for everything you are worth.

GROW UP BEFORE YOUR KIDS DO AND SEE WHAT A POOR EXCUSE FOR A FATHER/SPERM DONOR THEY HAVE. You own them that much

You and your wife sister should be with one another that way you both can see just what you can bring home... a std is probably in the works if you don't watch out.

Tell your wife so she knows and can at least take care of dealing with the fact that you are a liar and a cheater. Also very quit to possibly kill another mans baby. You don't know if it is yours or not so think before you act.

Good luck and I hope you learn a lesson from this.

Answer 4

I'm pro-choice and all, but you can't force or convince a girl to choose abortion. It's in her body, it's her choice. Sounds like she's set in her ways of keeping the baby. I think you should face the concequences of your actions if the baby does come out looking like you. I think you should stop having sex with her regardless of whether or not she's pregnant. And it's not called fat, it's called being pregnant. Don't make her self concious about being pregnant and gaining weight. She'll only resent you for it. More importantly, if she does keep it, you need to be nicer with the mother so you can get joint custody. The custody battle over the kid could turn ugly in all this and I'm sure you would like to see the baby if she keeps it. What happens if she gets pregnant again even while on birth control? Abortion isn't a form of birth control and can't fix all your problems. I think you need to come clean with your wife and she needs to come clean with her husband regardless of whether or not there is a baby in the future.

Answer 5

I already get drunk almost every night. In fact, I am drunk right now. So I don't think much would change for me. But I think males do because they like the buzz and it's more fun. It's not because of a wife, it's because it's fun and well ..... if we had a boys night out the girl automatically thinks we cheat so whatever we will stay home and party with ourselves!

Answer 6

First of all what goes around comes around baby !!!!!! If you can't control your liquor u shouldn't be drinking. Let's say this what about if you slept with a women that had HIV what would u be saying now oh well u would'nt be able to make that disappear would u. Face the truth and u know what else if your wifes sister really loves her she should know exactly what to do. And that means get rid of the poor fetus "if It's true" or she simply hates her sister and wants to be with a loser like u. GOOD LUCK

Answer 7

You just don't learn man. There are too many fish in the sea to be caught up in that. All hell is going to break loose.

The bad part is, this man might not be able to have kids and wants to, if its his and you abort, that's F'd up. U need to see if theres a way to tell for sure and then drop her quick. She should come clean but from what you are saying, she won't, karma will catch up with her though. I can see its already catching you.

Answer 8

Drinking is no excuse and how could either one of you do this to the one person you both love. Sounds like you need counseling and you need to hope all hell does not break loose. Best of luck and stop playing around unless you get divorced. People are going to be hurt and think of the children.

Answer 9

What the f is wrong with u?
Your wifes sis and u like the sex?
I say let her have th baby so u WONT have sex with her again!
My gosh kid.......
I hope the baby turns out black so u get in trouble!

Answer 10

First get vasectomy, maybe they will cut too much and you can just keep your pants on for the rest of your life. You are dangerous. Five children already and you are boinking your sis in law. The real tragedy is this coming baby. He/she did not ask for this. Adoption should be considered. Your sis in law is not without blame. She spread her legs.