before this i have create a bad decision. because of that, there are a lots of people started to think of me as a bad guy something like that! ever since, i have no confidence or desire or maybe afraid to talk to other people. i know what i did was really a big mistake, and i really do have learned from it. it does sound stupid to talk to people one by one about the mistake i have done. day by day, i'd feel a bit pressure bout it. so here i am, with no solution, asking for a solution!! please help me??
2007-01-22 14:01:12 · 3 answers · asked by asleexx 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It takes a lifetime to build trust and about 1/2 second to destroy it. My best advice, keep trying to stay on the straight and narrow, it will take a lot of time and a lot of patience. Eventually one person will trust you again and then another and so on. PATIENCE is the key. Don't give up. Be the better person.
2007-01-22 14:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by Mickey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is show that you realise you've done wrong, apologise, take responsibilty for your actions. Then prove that by not making the same mistake again, prove yourself to be trustworthy. Be worthy of trust. And then wait. Being on the recieving end of bad decisions and untrustworthy behaviour, it took me a long time to get over the hurt caused. Be patient and accept that you caused the distrust.
2007-01-22 22:45:14 · answer #2 · answered by CheeseFest 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust is hard to earn and easy to loose. However, it can be regained with time. Time and being consistent and predictable. I don't mean predictable in a negative sense, but predictable in the sense that the person you are trying to earn trust from can predict and trust what you are to be doing. For example, if you are supposed to be home at 8:00, you will be "predictable" in the sense that you will indeed be home at 8:00. Predictability can go a long ways to restoring trust.
2007-01-22 22:19:14 · answer #3 · answered by Kerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋