Something I did three years ago is coming back and haunting me....I get depressed all the time about what I did and don't know how to deal with it.
2007-01-22 13:47:25 · 7 answers · asked by beatlesfanatic123456 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
If you did something bad to someone, admit it, apologise for it, make it right if you can. Then forgive yourself. If you keep trying to run away from it, you will only keep thinking about it, it will haunt you for the rest of your life. If it is merely a regret, accept the fact that you can't go back and change the past, but try to do what you can now to make happen what you want to happen.
Good luck!
2007-01-22 14:50:35 · answer #1 · answered by CheeseFest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people screw up some time in their life . . .
If it is possible to make amends, make them, unless it would cause more damage to whomever.
If it is not possible to make amends, just counsel others on avoiding the mistake you made, like how others can avoid it.
It does sound like you at least learned from it & will not be repeating the mistake. Lots of people seem to never learn !
Good luck to you
2007-01-22 13:59:46 · answer #2 · answered by kate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on what you did. Breaking someone heart would just be a matter of going and saying sorry but if you killed or hurt someone then you might need to do alot more. Really hard to give advise on such a wide open subject matter.
2007-01-22 13:58:50 · answer #3 · answered by 2Negative 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello. it very hard to get over somebody that you love . but I am happy to say you will smile again. there going to be days that you will start thinking about them again. but that to shell pass. you will never forget them and that a good thing. because I no that they are in the arm of Jesus. and they are resting now. so look up and jest think God you are still here because if we live right down here you will be able to see our love ones again one sweet day. I will be praying for you . stay strong and do something will make you happy. and take care of yourself. there somebody that care about you and love you and that person is Jesus Christ. and I do to. SMILE for your self.
2007-01-22 14:06:55 · answer #4 · answered by cynthia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on just like the rest of the world.
2007-01-22 13:53:00 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep thinking about it. Eventually your brain will mess it up so you won't really remember what exactly happened. :)
I haven't tried this method yet, but things in the past are hard to recall.
2007-01-22 13:51:58 · answer #6 · answered by necromancer312 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
keep obsessing about it till it effects your life.
2007-01-22 13:54:05 · answer #7 · answered by user name 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋