Okay, when I was in second grade, I liked a guy who is now the geekiest kid in our class. My friends tease me about it all the time, but never in public. I told them not to tell anyone. So my ex-best friend (she was my ex-BFF before this) goes around in computer class and shouts "(my name) had a crush on (his name) in second grade!" my other friends told her that i was embarressed and she should stop. but did she? no. she kept saying it. i denied it, but i don't know if people believed me. what should i do? its not so much that i care that people know that i like this dorky kid. i mean i am WAY embarressed, but thats not the main thing. my real question is what should i do with the friend that spilled this secret? i feel like i can't trust her anymore. and i'll be honest, our friendship has been very rocky recently. please help! thanks!
2007-01-22 13:30:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
how are you planning on helping me?
sorry that came out mean
i'm in a bad mood
lol
i mean it nicely
2007-01-22 13:36:17 · update #1
nevermind about the last additional details, i meant to put that in another question. sorry!!!
2007-01-22 13:37:42 · update #2
It sounds like she isn't really your friend if she enjoys embarrassing you. Since you can't trust her with information like that, I wouldn't tell her anything. Stay away from her and find some friends that you can trust with anything. Oh, and as for the cat that she let out of the bag, don't deny it anymore. If someone asks you, tell them that you did have a crush on him in the second grade - big deal - you are attracted to substance over popularity. Plus, if you admit it, it completely puts out any sort of fire that she was trying to start in the first place.
2007-01-29 15:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, about your friend, don't worry about her. If she wants to be your friend, great! If not even better, she does'nt seem to have been a good friend to you anyways. About the so called Geek or Dork, if people really view him as one, then it would'nt hurt at all for him to know that you liked him in the second grade. He may have a low self esteem and that could help him, does'nt mean that you have to like him now. It was a long time ago, why be embarrased by it now, let it go.
2007-01-30 03:54:31 · answer #2 · answered by espee65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, all your problems should be this small, and you will live a wonderful life. Also keep in mind that the dorks of today grow into the most successful people tomorrow. Still if you continue to be so shallow, you wont have a chance with them. They are smart enough to see bullsh*t walking.
2007-01-29 03:48:43 · answer #3 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I guess your going through arough time. I dont know if you should tell that friend who spilled your secret anything personal you may not be able to trust her but you never no something might be going through something rough. I dont know try to be her friend but if you can't sand it I'd just tell her that she hasn't been being a very good friend and you can't stand that!
2007-01-29 11:44:41 · answer #4 · answered by BeachBum_x3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do nothing that was a long time ago i hope and if it wasnt not then its okay just get over it people always will do something to make you embrassed. If you still like go up to him and say i like you and I know you heard this. Would you like to go out or what if you dont then its okay. It could have been worst then this trust me.
2007-01-28 07:20:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend, can't be trusted. She is going to tell other people the secrets and things that you tell her. Just be careful what you say to her. You should also talk to her about her telling that secret. It obviously bothers you. Try to make her understand that she can't do that to you.
2007-01-22 13:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by Angel_Face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't mind what they say if u like him so what but wait...do u like as a friend or a boyfriend gurl friend thag ...NOT SAY U GAY OR ANYTHING well the way u got it the paragraph is like, u like him in a boyfriend gurlfriend thang ,so should have reread it to seem if i sounded right.But anyway i think u should try to talk u alls friend- ship out,cuz that's what i will do and then if she get an attitude AND curse her out and be like ..... well i started to say soming but i don't know her like that but ....HALLA AT YA LATA
2007-01-22 14:41:34 · answer #7 · answered by tweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her why she open her mouth and after that if she can not give you a good and honest answerer who needs a friend like that so maybe you should let it go and not let words hurt you because ta ht all that is is words and try not to show to other bother you and then maybe it will it stop good luck
2007-01-22 13:42:08 · answer #8 · answered by mary m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're friend cant be trusted if i were you..... i wouldn't tell her anymore secrets or anything because she'll do the same thing over an over again...so dont trust anymore and for that matter if she told everyone who you liked she wasn't one of you're real friends
2007-01-22 13:45:27 · answer #9 · answered by I love when emo boys make out 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her. is there a reason why she spilled your biggest secret? something like who you like should be kept personal? if you guys make up, just be careful what you tell her. dont trust her completely...
2007-01-22 13:34:11 · answer #10 · answered by ♥2cute4u♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋