How long have u been married and how long did u and ur spouse date before having sex for the first time..Me and hubby been happily married 16 yrs and had sex for the first time a month after we started dating..I guess that maybe was kinda soon lol
2007-01-22 13:20:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We've been marrried for 43 years, and I don't think it's anyone's business what we do.
2007-01-22 13:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by buster 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I have been together for 10 years now, married (legally) for 7 1/2. We had sex after about 2 weeks of dating (if that). I can honestly say it has made no difference in our relationship. Neither of us saw any reason not to have sex before marriage. In fact our son was more than a year old when we married. We knew we were going to stay together and we have. Marriage was a formality. Each relationship is different. You say you are happy, so don't worry about it. "Kinda soon" only applies if you think there is something to be ashamed of.
2007-01-22 14:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by Brian W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We've been married for 13 yrs and had sex for the first time a month after we started dating. We had been friends for several yrs before that.
2007-01-22 13:41:30 · answer #3 · answered by catfan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I have been married for over 10 years now, going on 11 this Aug.
We dated over 2 years before we ever had sex for the first time.
2007-01-22 14:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married to my husband for 7 months now. We have been together almost 7 years. And I too, had sex with him about a month after we started dating! He was only the second man I have ever been with. So it was soon for me, but it all worked out perfectly!
2007-01-22 18:14:44 · answer #5 · answered by BeckyKay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how you look at our relationship. We first started dating when we were 16 and we dated off an on until we were 18. Even though he wanted to, I wasn't ready back then. I ended up marrying another man who started cheating on me within the first year. He tried getting back with me right after I left him and wanted to sleep with me then, but I didn't want him to be a rebound or revenge sex. About three years later, he helped me move and we started dating again. It wasn't long after that. So, you could say we waited about 10 years - or just around a week - either one.
2007-01-22 13:27:14 · answer #6 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have been married for about 5 months. We dated for about 4 years before we actually got married. We're a little different than the norm -- we waited until we were married to have sex. It's MUCH more worth it, in my opinion. You feel like you've really accomplished something, and you realize that there's more to a meaningful relationship than sex! :) It was worth the wait, too!! :)
2007-01-22 13:41:22 · answer #7 · answered by Tifferella 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I got married 8 months ago. We had been best friends for 5 years before marriage. We had sex the first night we got married.
2007-01-22 13:24:43 · answer #8 · answered by STARS 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 7 years going on 8 and no I did not wait till i was married but now i wish i had.... This would have been much more special if i had of waited...
2007-01-22 13:39:34 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for four months, we met a year before we got married and we waited a longer than what I normally do for the first time....2nd date.
2007-01-22 13:30:13 · answer #10 · answered by Thatiana M 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Today is the eleventh anniversary of our first date and we've been married for seven and a half years. God, I love that woman!
2007-01-22 14:15:11 · answer #11 · answered by rtanys 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋