ok i like alot of girls and i mean alot... but i wanna know who is bi or lesbian.... and who is just straight... and i was wondering if any1 knew how to tell if a girl is bi or lesbian... and i also wanna know how to turn a girl bi or lesbian if they r straight....
i know its possible to turn a girl bi or les cuz i used to be straight then a girl turned me bi and i have just recently turned lesbian... and im actually very muture for my age and i know for sure that im lesbian... i have thought about it alot lately and i have been wondering to myself... am i really lesbian or am i still bi or what!!?!??!?!? so i started looking at guys to see if i like them and i really have ABSOLUTLY NO intrest in boys... like i have some friends that r guys but i dont like them like that.... but i know there is a way to turn a girl bi... but i also want to know how to be able to tell if a girl is bi or lesbian WITHOUT asking them... thanx!
2007-01-22 12:58:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
im 13..........................................
2007-01-22 13:21:50 · update #1
NOOOO!! I JUST WANT TO KNW HOW TO TELL IF A GIRL IS BI OR LESBAN OR STRAIGHT!!!! THATS IT!
2007-01-22 13:22:45 · update #2
there is no way of knowing for sure if a person is lesbian or not unless you talk to them. you don't have to ask them outright, but talk about the subject and see what they say.
other issue, no, there is no way to "turn" someone lesbian. we are born with our sexuality and that can't change.. but some people take years to discover their true selves, so that may be your only chance to get someone who think's they are straight but might not be.
2007-01-22 13:40:57 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn someone bi or lesbian? The tendency is either there or it's not. It's not a choice. I hear your plight but finding someone straight is just as difficult. You don't know someone's sexual preference until you actually decide to get involved, like if they're married or not (not everyone wears a "ring"). Be comfortable with who you are and it will all come naturally.
2007-01-22 13:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by thymus_x_citriodorus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to turn girls lesbian or bi. It can ruin families, I'd know(my mommy and daddy is now my mommy, mommy's girlfriend, and daddy who don't live togther... O_o), but I'm not against gayness.
What you could do is join some type of group, like the GSA(Gay-Straight Alliance[or maybe it's association...]) and hook up with one of the girls there. Probably, if you asked a straight girl out in GSA, it wouldn't be bad because they'd expect it sorta.
2007-01-22 13:07:04 · answer #3 · answered by Revvi A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, why no longer purely visit lesbian bars? Or lookup women on relationship attractions that are lesbians? Your no longer gonna discover to many lesbians, there are a number of females prepared to test. One time 2 lesbians needed to have intercourse with me merely because of the fact of my aspects hah, ya that grow to be exciting. yet besides the final public of the inhabitants is right this moment so its gonna be demanding for ya.
2016-11-26 20:03:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to burst your bubble but you can't turn people bi or lesbians/gay, I'VE TRIED MANY TIMES. An d honey please don't be offended but you were probably a lesbian all along and some subconscious feeling was suppressing that.
2007-01-22 13:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by flamingbeans247 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Beyond the reason that you claim to know, there really isn't much of a way to tell. We're mostly very individualistic. We don't all drive the same vehicle, have the same piercing, talk the same way, etc.
2007-01-22 20:42:33 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would u try to make a strait women bi there are enough around. go on a website and find 1
2007-01-22 13:15:05 · answer #7 · answered by Mysterious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young and immature and need a better grasp of the world before you bother with such things.
PS. The fact you had to say you are mature shows quite clearly that you are not.
2007-01-22 14:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by someavgguy 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
at just 13 years old why is this your major concern? you don't sound mature too me, because most mature 13 year old girls are concentrating on school and friends
2007-01-22 14:46:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I find your question difficult to answer without knowing your age.
Sorry.
2007-01-22 13:09:08 · answer #10 · answered by kittykittykitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋