There's this guy at my gym, he's actuaaly a trainer there, and my problem, is the fact that I don't know if he's flirting with me or not.For instance, around christmas, he came up to me and asked me how my holidays and I told him it was okay, then he asked me, who did I spend it with.And then there was another occasion where he came up to me and told me I looked sad, and wanted to see me smile, and as I was leaving asked me when will I be back.I'm thinking , well maybe he's just being friendly, but then he told me to call him on his cell phone, in which I did, and he told me that he would love to be my friend, even if he seen me outside of the gym, and told me that if I ever wanted to go to a movie or hang out, to hit him up, and then he invited me to his bible study class!
2007-01-22 12:05:37 · 9 answers · asked by Brooke 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ask him
2007-01-22 12:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's many opinions i guess.
like he could just be a really friendly guy.
or maybe he may not be flirting, but it may seem like it because it appeals to you?
or maybe he is flirting, its hard to tell.
i think that you should just keep doing what your doing, and if he does anything, makes a a greater move or something. well then thats good.
unless he's like an adult? when saying trainer do you mean an adult.. or like a older teenager.
2007-01-22 12:11:41 · answer #2 · answered by xtina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. He is not flirting. He is paid to be nice to the ladies that workout at the gym. Then his religious cult told him that he is required to bring in one new member and you looked like the easiest prey. Run away!
2007-01-22 12:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by Tamm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this guy is definitely interested in you. If you're interested back then it can't hurt to try, right? Who knows. He may be the one.
Good luck!
2007-01-22 12:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by Misty Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just trying to be ur friend a good friend of mine goes to bible study and most of them arent looking for a relationship because they have god, have fun with that.
2007-01-22 12:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you clueless? "Um...maybe if you're not too busy...uh...we could maybe see a movie sometime...um...y'know...."
He doesn't have a very confident delivery, true, but yes...he's asking you out. this is typically a strong sign of flirting.
2007-01-22 12:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by woobinator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to be your friend first of all and then maybe something else later on. Be his friend and see where it takes you.
2007-01-22 12:09:19 · answer #7 · answered by Jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.he is stalking you....run away change your number HURYYY
2007-01-22 12:08:41 · answer #8 · answered by steve s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
duh! he's flirting with you not just that I can tell he likes you! give him a Chance, you never know
2007-01-22 12:11:02 · answer #9 · answered by LALALALALALALALALALA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋