help me i am about to kill my self well not really but hes gone what do i do?
2007-01-22 12:00:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
What do you do, Kool?
You thank God for granting you life and you go on. I know that it hurts a lot right now, but it will get better with time. Easier said than done, right? I know. But since I've been there, I can tell you the truth. Surround yourself with friends and family and pray for God to heal your heart and soul. It doesn't happen overnight, but it DOES happen. You just have to hang in there. And don't even joke about killing yourself. He is so not worth it! No one is.You know that saying "That which does not kill me makes me stronger"? Well, it's true! So keep on going girl, there is some serious light at the end of the tunnel. Stay Strong!
Peace
2007-01-22 12:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by JOURNEY 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you do is you thank God that you now have the opportunity to find your TRUE soul mate, because he obviously wasn't the right one for you. Things happen for a reason, whether we like it or not. We can't see the big picture, so we don't know that these things happen to us for good. When my husband and I broke up, I begged God every day to let me have him back, for us to be together again, because I missed him. But if that had happened, I would be back in that abusive loveless relationship with a drug-addicted fool,instead of in a real, loving adult relationship with my current guy.
Think positively, live each day at a time, talk to somebody about how you're feeling.
When I was going through all that, I had a little thing I used to read every morning that helped a lot :
Just for today I will try to live through this day only and not tackle all my problems at once. I can do something for twelve hours that would horrify me if I felt I had to keep it up for a lifetime.
Just for today I will be happy. This assumes to be true what Abraham Lincoln said "Most folks are as happy as they make up their minds to be"
Just for today I will take my luck as it comes, try to strenghten my mind, have a quiet half-hour to myself.
Just for today I will be unafraid. Especially I will not be afraid to enjoy what is beautiful, and to believe that as I give to the world, so the world will give to me.
Live just for today, Kool, and tomorrow will come in it's turn, and you can deal with it when it does. If I can get through the death of my daughter, the breakdown of my marriage and the desertion of my parents using this method, so can you, mate!
Good luck! And remember to be kind to yourself!
2007-01-22 12:42:20 · answer #2 · answered by CheeseFest 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself cleaned up, put on some nice clothes, and get your tail out of the house for a bit! Call some friends to meet with you at the movies, pub, whatever it takes to get you out of your mental funk. Act silly, enjoy the giggles, be a kid, and enjoy yourself. Don't let a negative situation steal your joy. "Don't worry, be happy."
2007-01-22 12:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by Battlerattle06 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to go through the grief stages, after that, move on. The quicker you start dating someone else the better.
2007-01-22 12:29:33 · answer #4 · answered by sowhat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋