My wife told me I can go outside our marriage, should i do it or is it a set up?

Answer 1

Maybe she has already went out on you. Have you noticed any change in her appetite for sex?
Does she appear to be deep?

Ya never know that the Cat played Hooky at Home.

Answer 2

Ok first off not many women would say this.Even those in the swinging lifestyle are with there partners when doing it.I would say that she is either already cheating on you or is wanting someone else.It may be that she also just wants out and figures you can find someone else this way and leave her.Either way I don't think that either of you are in this marriage anymore.If she loved you she wouldnt have told you this and if you loved her you wouldnt be contemplating it.And by posing the question on here asking if you should do it you are comtemplating it.

Answer 3

there is a tv show on Monday nights on ABC at 10pm. the wife told the husband that she wanted to try an open marriage she both the husband and the wife went out slept w/ someone else and now there marriage is on the rocks! both liven at different places haven there kids at different times. so if she is being honest now i think it will back fire and your marriage could be recked! if u wanna chance that go for it if not stay at home w/ her she does love ya! o by the way the tv show is what about Brian!

Answer 4

Absolutely... I can hook you up with some sheep in WV or Montana, where the men are men and the sheep are nervous!!! No one gets hurt... no whisker burns left behind... no jealousies to worry about...

Actually, I'd be wondering why this was even suggested or brought up? What would cause a woman to say this? An illness within her? Within you? Loss of affection? She can't stand being with you? She's a bit kinky? She's maybe already in action with someone? The questions are endless, but there is/are only 1-3 answers, figure this out before you go into the woods looking for someone else.

Answer 5

More details, please.

WHY did she say that? Was it out of the blue? Was it after you told her you weren't satisfied? There's so many reasons she may have said. SHE may be having an affair and wants to equal it out by giving you permission. Or maybe she's testing to see if you really love her (which is lame.)

Either way, I'm almost positive that if you DO go outside the marriage, that'll be the beginning of the end. (which again, may be what she wants?)

More info would help.

Answer 6

Straight SET UP. Its a test to see if you cheat and if you do go outside your marriage you are totally screwed.

Answer 7

my first question would be, why are you married? if you have any longing to be with someone other than your wife get divorced. she may say it's okay. probably deep down she doesn't mean it, but she is trying to see if you'll do it. if you do your a fool regardless. i would ask what it is that your not giving her that she thinks you would even wanna go outside your marriage.

Answer 8

Could be a set up. Could be she is already "outside" the marriage and is trying to justify her actions, could be a set up. How do you feel about it? and would you tell her if you did?

Answer 9

Sounds like she is wanting to go outside the marriage letting you that gives her permission. Why be married if you can't be satisfied with each other?

Answer 10

It sounds like she is contemplating having an affair or is having one already and she doesn't want to feel guilty if you are having one too. Please find a marriage counselor to go to. If she won't go with you, you need to go alone. Only unhappiness will come to your marriage once the marriage vows are broken. Fidelity in marriage is a trust no one can take from you.