I am in a horrible situation. My boyfriend is extremely sexy but than I met his family. WOW! His dad is ssssssssssssssssooo hot, he made me wet the moment we shook hands. He is tall and muscular. He used to be a pro athlete. What do I do? There was an obvious connection. His dad is single (his mom and dad are divorced). I caught his dad staring at my ***. He checked me out when I was in the kitchen too. I am having naughty thoughts. HELP!
2007-01-22 11:37:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I am NOT talking about a serious thing! More like a sexual adventure!
2007-01-22 11:42:39 · update #1
No do not go there u will only hurt ur boyf, how would you feel if he dated ur mum.
2007-01-22 11:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by louisem28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate to your situation, as my boyfriend's dad is verry sexy. He has a wonderful voice and I just love to hear him talk. The first time I heard him speak over the phone, I had this fluttery swooping sensation in my chest when I hung up. I thought I was gonna swoon and fall on the bed. So I know how strong the attraction can be. In your case, even if your boyfriend's parents are divorced, hooking up with the dad could still lead to a lot of resentment if he has any contact at all with his ex-wife (for instance, if she visits their son or they both have to go to family events). In addition, do you want to permanently alienate your boyfriend, even if you aren't sure you want to marry him? It sounds as if your crush could only lead to a fling at best. I would try to think about the fact that someday your boyfriend will be just as sexy at that age. If your boyfriend's dad makes advances towards you, don't accept them. Instead, for your sake and to rebuff the dad, focus your affections on your boyfriend. That will hopefully remind his father that he is being a traitor to his son if he does anything more than look at you. Let your crush be an occasional fantasy and nothing more. Alternately, if your relationship isn't a good one, you could try dating an older man. Maybe you are just naturally drawn to the older type.
2007-01-24 17:59:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, it is no longer incorrect. I have an charm for older adult adult males once in a lengthy time period. i doesn't act on it although... purely undergo in concepts who you're relationship, no longer his dad. wondering he's pleasing is really threat free.
2016-10-15 23:12:57 · answer #3 · answered by student 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all...if you aren't over 18, then you can only drool at daddy. Second, I always would go for the older man! But just because he looked, doesn't mean he wants to keep you.
2007-01-22 11:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by Lemme tell ya... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with the boyfriend...you and the dad would make an inappropriate relationship...
2007-01-22 11:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by Dee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, if you want to discuss issues about sex, go to another forum. The people here are too conservative, so expect to get flamed badly.
I myself have kissed my ex-gf's mom, but that is completely a different story! oops...
2007-01-22 11:43:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There must be a huge gap in the age difference
2007-01-22 11:40:40 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
duuuuuuuuuude how many years older is the guys dad??? 20 maybe???? plus, he got DIVORCED.....& it would be creepy 4 the poor kid if another kid's datin his own dad!
2007-01-22 11:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hot boyfriend if his dad is that hot imagine what your boyfriend could look like in that amount of time...plus old = saggy balls yuck!
2007-01-22 11:42:08 · answer #9 · answered by thenoodle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Play with fire and you will get burnt
2007-01-22 11:43:11 · answer #10 · answered by ><>JHF<>< 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋