im 20 and my mom make rude comments about my kids(twins, 11 month olds), and why is she trying to convince me to get an abortion
2007-01-22 11:34:08 · 8 answers · asked by the sun should burn out tommorow 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
i should have mentioned im pregnant again
2007-01-22 11:39:30 · update #1
Are you a single mom already? I mean are the twins dad around? Is he the father of the baby in your belly? Maybe your mom don't like the dad and she is taking it out on the hildren, which is wrong! Do you live with her? If so, move out, if not, then just don't go there anymore until she can respect you and your children.
As far as an abortion, I am totally against that. It is your child, not hers. If you want the baby then don't worry about her. If not, consider adoption before you kill the baby. It is not the babies fault. If you don't want anymore children, get your tubes tied (since this will make baby #3, you should be able to do that) or get on birth control as soon as the baby os born.
Your Body, Your Children! Tell her to back off!
Good-Luck!
As far as the age, I am now 24 almost 25 and have been married since I was 17, we are very happy and have a daughter together. She is very happy and healthy!
2007-01-22 11:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Just_Me♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, don't listen to your mom on the abortion thing...
And especially her saying rude things about her own grandkids...
She may be doing it because she grew up in a house where criticism was a normal way of talking.... like some people use curse words in between every other sentence because that is how they were taught at home as kids....
that could be why..
you didn't ask what you might do about it so I will reserve commenting..
2007-01-22 19:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got the same attitude when I was pregnant with mine and my husband's 3rd child. My two girls are 19 months apart. Tell her that it's not her decision and that you're happy about your new baby and she needs to support you.
Just wanted to add that just because you're 20 doesn't mean you're not stable and ready for children. I got married at 18 and I'm now 25 with 4 happy, healthy, good children. Age isn't about everything. My life is truly centered around being the best mom on earth! Be the best mom you can be and always truly put your kids first!
2007-01-22 19:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by Trouble's Mama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the situation or weither you are actually a good mother or a bad mother. Perhaps your mother has a point or perhaps she is just jealous. You didn't state the circumstances. So there is no way to give reasonable advice in this situation either than to say you should seek couseling.
2007-01-22 19:42:30 · answer #4 · answered by Chasity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you giving her a reason why she is suggesting an abortion? Are you a good parent? If you are then why care what she says?
2007-01-22 19:42:10 · answer #5 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a rude old hag. Don't talk to her anymore.
2007-01-22 22:33:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY ARE YOU PREGNANT AGAIN WHEN YOU'RE SO YOUNG W/ TWINS? WHAT WILL YOU HAVE TO OFFER THEM IN TERMS OF A STABLE HOME?
2007-01-22 19:41:24 · answer #7 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her to SHUT UP, smarten up or stay away.
2007-01-22 19:37:45 · answer #8 · answered by tewarienormy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋