2007-01-22 11:30:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
www.plannedparenthood.com
Safest way is to have an abortion, please don't hurt yourself.
2007-01-22 11:34:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I really wish you the best of luck with whatever may happen in your life. And I really hope that you are asking this question as a preventative measure...but if not, you have other options to remedy this situation rather than harming yourself and your unborn child. There are many people in this world that would pay a lot of money to have a child because they can't conceive on their own. Unless maybe your reason for not wanting to consider adoption is maybe because you don't want people to know that you are pregnant at all. Maybe you're just scared and you don't know what to do, and you don't have anyone to turn to, and you feel helpless, hopeless or lost. Being pregnant is a difficult thing sometimes, even when you have a good network of support, but if you are doing this on your own and you are confused you could always go to a clinic. There are clinics all over the world that could help you figure out what is the best option for you and your baby, and if you just needed someone to talk to you could always do it anonymously. Whatever your choice is, try to be healthy and safe for your sake...and your baby's. Good Luck.
2007-01-22 19:51:43 · answer #2 · answered by hasgr8boyz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How could you? Abortion or any scheme to kill the child is murder. There is life inside of you. A child that did not even get a chance yet to see the world. The child's heart is beating. The child's feet is kicking your uterus. The child has a right to his/her life. You dont have the right to kill the child. It mite be legal in the country but it is an abomination to the Lord. Now doesnt the country itself serves the Lord despite our immoral ways? Please dont do this.There is reasons why u dont want this child. Thus, you should let the child live to change the reasons. How would u feel if ur parents decided to abort you? You might turn to me and say "i couldnt careless; maybe it is better i was never born." But there are days u felt happily alive. Never deny the things that made you happy. During delivery, my mother had problem delivering me, my dad was worried and told the doctor to abort me. But with the Lord's grace, im a very well being now. My dad is regretful that he even considered of killing me; thus, he loves me dearly. I can forgive him, for the Lord to forgive me also. Im 18 and have more to see in life. I need to get out there and stop abortion. God uses me now as a tool to stop you.from making the biggest mistake in your life. You are blessed with a child. You are carrying him/her for three months already, where is the love?
PS. People encouraging in here for you to lose your child! What you dont want for yourself, please dont encourage it to others!
I beseech you not to do it and I care.
2007-01-22 20:18:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're hoping to somehow avoid seeing a doctor, miscarrying after 12 weeks via deliberately unsafe behaviour sounds like a _great_ way to _fascinate_ any doctor who deals with you in the future.
Especially the one who gives you the D&C to clear out what got left behind and prevent an infection. I grant that that's not _always_ necessary, but, read this section for a bit to find out what happens to women who actually do miscarry.
Re. 'actually do' -- I don't think what you're looking to do is technically 'miscarry.' There's another term for that.
2007-01-22 22:04:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The precious life of an unborn baby's life can be lost any time in pregnancy. It sounds like you need someone to talk about this pregnancy. Try a crisis pregnancy center. Trust me, even if this isn't what you think you want, being the mother of a child who's passed away isn't going to be any easier, especially if you know you were the cause.
2007-01-22 19:34:24 · answer #5 · answered by Trouble's Mama 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
This the oddest questions and I recommend you talk to your doctor.
During pregnancy it is not uncommon to stress about things but to post this question seems a little over the top. For your health and the health of the baby, I really recommend you stop worrying and enjoy your pregnancy.
If you are having, or had problems, please be more specific next time.
2007-01-22 19:38:55 · answer #6 · answered by Chasity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom played softball and dove for the ball, miscarried. Also I play volleyball, and if you get in the way of people you could get to where you may miscarry. At three months though... it's kinda hard to predict a miscarriage.
2007-01-22 19:36:05 · answer #7 · answered by Mamma M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
home remedies to induce abortion are more dangerous the further you are along and are normally not effective at all after 4 weeks and not advised at all after 6 weeks. If you use this type of home remedy and it is unsuccessful you MUST go for a clinical abortion immediately! if you do not it can cause internal hemorrhage and you can bleed to death.
please read http://www.sisterzeus.com/Abortif.htm
http://www.choicetolivewith.com/herbalabortion.html
2007-01-22 19:36:31 · answer #8 · answered by tpuahlekcip 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I 've got to go with Savvy Grl on this one. Please contact Planned Parenthood, get some counseling, then take care in the future not to get pregnant again.
Your question is really repugnant. Please consider a legal and safe abortion or an adoption, but only if you are willing to care for this life in utero.
2007-01-22 19:41:33 · answer #9 · answered by Pamela B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you dont want to have this baby, maybe you should have this baby put up for adoption.... your question is a bit crude, considering there are epople who pay up to tens of thousands of dollars to get pregnant. if it is in fact that your scared to lose the baby your carrying, i rollerbladed up to five months pregnant and i fell pretty bad once, and the baby was fine, the womb is stronger than you think
2007-01-22 19:34:38 · answer #10 · answered by Jane Doe 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Look don't do anything stupid are you really that immature no offense that you can go out and have sex unprotected your own decision then wait three months in an decide to give up please reconsider there are plenty of things you can do and killing your child and harming yourself should not be one of them
2007-01-22 19:37:26 · answer #11 · answered by Aggen. 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋