i am a 20 year old girl, who desperatly wants to get pregnant. my boyfriend and i (he is 26 and has a very stable job) have tried many times, and failed each and every one. i really want a kid. should i cheat on him, and see if i get pregnant or what. i want a kid more than i want him, please remember.
2007-01-22 11:28:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
If you do get pregnant, "Ken" please give your child a gender appropriate name.
2007-01-22 11:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by Legally Blonde 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No you shouldn't cheat on him! Bringing a child into this world is a huge decision, something that requires a stable family. If you're willing to cheat on him just to get pregnant, then you may have some other issues you need to work out first.
Once you've worked those issues out, the both of you should go see a doctor. The doctor can do an exam on both of you to ensure you are both fertile. The doctor will tell you what to do whatever his diagnosis.
2007-01-22 12:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by Brandy A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer relatively understand... are you asking if a woman who's at the instant pregnant, 3-5 months alongside, can get pregnant with a 2nd toddler for the duration of an identical being pregnant? if so, no this isn't obtainable using incontrovertible fact that the cervix/uterus is closed off (mucus plug and whatnot) If although you recommend a woman who's had slightly one 3-5 months formerly, definite it relatively is obtainable to get pregnant back so quickly after having the youngster.
2016-11-01 00:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by quinteros 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want a baby, but do you want the responsibility of having your body change, getting sick, gaining weight, possably being alone in the hospital at delivery time, taking a chance on raising the child alone, possability of having a child with medical problems that could cost you for years to come... and the possability of have a child that grows up and want to have a baby at age 16 or 17?
Are you prepared to give up going out to stay with a sick baby, or will you have your mother or grand ma keep him while you go have fun..
Are you prepared to work, instead of continue your education, in order to provide a good life for the baby, or will you depend on a man you are not married to to do that.. ?
My 14 year old son tells me all the time how much he wants a car... So I went and got him a Driver's Test manual... Why? Because I know he needs to know the rules of driving before he gets a car... and if reads every page, then I will talk to him about working and paying for his own gas... and advise him to take car repair courses in case he has problems with his car but no money to fix it...
I will tell him what it takes to be responsible with such a priviledge.
You may have a happy healthy baby, and I hope you do... just slow down and count the costs.... before you bring a life into this cold world.
2007-01-22 11:55:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! Do not cheat on your boyfriend. If you do not want to be with him, then just leave. But do not get pregnant by someone you hardly know, just because you want a baby. Remember things happen for a reason. My cousin and his x-girlfriend were together for several years, and never had a baby, they thought that he couldn't make babies. Well, they broke up and now she has a child and he has 4. I guess it wasn't meant for them to have children together because other plans were made for them. If ya know what I mean.
Give it time though, if it is meant for you to have a baby, it will happen. Do not rush into this, maybe someone knows you and your boyfriend really aren't ready for a baby.
If you think that one of you aren't able to make babies, you should consider going to get tested to see.
Good Luck and Best Wishes.
2007-01-22 11:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Just_Me♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cheat on your boyfriend just to have a baby, then I would say you are not responsible enough to have a baby. Children are products of love, you shouldn't just use men to have babies. It's a selfish thing to do. And if you cheat on him, you will most likely be a single mother. Don't go there, and stay out of trouble.
2007-01-22 11:47:13 · answer #6 · answered by SG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow - you're a moron.
Just what the world needs one more idiot with a baby.
Let me guess you wanna name the baby Jaelin, Braelin, Trinity, Serenity, Chance, Cash or something equally stupid.
I hope you don't get pregnant until you mature, get a grip on reality and realize that a baby isn't a toy.
2007-01-22 14:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by Felicity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I think Ken's an odd name for a woman. I know what you need to do. YOU need to find a man that you truly want to be with for the REST OF YOUR LIFE and then get married and then try to get pregnant. I betcha it'll work!! Trust me, if you want a kid more than your man, you aren't gonna want the kid when it's screaming and crying and your baby daddy don't love you anymore.
2007-01-22 11:31:44 · answer #8 · answered by Trouble's Mama 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dont cheat on him that would ruin everything between the two of you. Go to a doctor for advice or if your not serious about him.... Still go to a doctor, check you out, then find a new relationship. Your the most important!
2007-01-22 11:34:32 · answer #9 · answered by krissyrizza 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you will be a single mom if you do this. you are 20 years old!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! if his job is so great, then why aren't you married? grow the hell up, get married, and raise a baby the right way. if you want a baby more than you want him, he needs to leave your selfish butt behind. maybe you are the sterile one? ever think of that? then you would have cheated on a guy who is too good for you.
go ahead, have all the children you want, be on welfare. apparently you think more of yourself than a life of a child. good job.
2007-01-22 11:36:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat....give it time. I have been off the pill for a year now and it's takin me ever bit this long to get pregnant. I FINALLY am!!
2007-01-22 11:31:35 · answer #11 · answered by mattsorumsbiggestfan 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋