2007-01-22 10:57:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Some things are not true or real before you say them out loud. Heck I don't even know my stance on most issues before I hear the words come out of my mouth. Why not wait a few years and experiment on the down low before you decide to make your sexuality true by saying it out loud. You're only 13 and you could just be very, very horny.
2007-01-22 11:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by brendan n 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may not actually be bisexual. It is very normal for boys and girls your age to have periodic sexual feelings toward someone of their same sex.
If you have a trusted male of female counselor at school, I would talk it over with him or her. I do not suggest at thist time that you come out to your parents as a bisexual fellow. Quite frankly, it may be a self-fulfilling prophecy for you -- and you may not be bi at all but then have to live the life of either a gay man or a straight man.
Having said all of that, bisexual urges often are first noticeable to guys and gals around your age. If these urges continue throughout your teenage years and into adulthood, you are probably a bisexual fellow.
Archer, talk to a counselor. And pay no attention to these characters who sometimes frequent this site who have have had little dealings with non-straight people and probably don't know all that much about human development themselves.
2007-01-22 16:06:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be his chum, care, enable it improve -- if he's a few thing will happen, if he's not you'll merely ought to seem elsewhere. I keep in innovations my first b/f -- have self belief me we did not communicate about it. We were jointly further and added and quicker or later when we were taking area in round and wrestling I felt his h*rd *n pressed into my area and that i merely lost it. each and every thing we did become surprising, and we persisted to do it oftentimes between 13 and 15 earlier we observed it. that's really ok. merely improve your friendship with him and word the position it is going. form innovations, Hermes
2016-12-02 22:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not be too worried about telling your parents at this stage. I wouldn't be sticking a label on myself at that age either. I take it you are attracted to both boys and girls. This is perfectly normal. If you are experimenting with sex, fine but be careful and don't do it with anyone much older than you are. They could be in serious trouble.
Take things as they come, explore your sexuality and yourself but don't stick a label on anything. Take your time, there is no rush. When you are confident about yourself, you will find coming out quite easy - if that is what you want to do. It is your life, your sexuality and no-one else's.
2007-01-22 11:13:42 · answer #4 · answered by tentofield 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations, I knew when I was 9 and knew I liked men when I was 5. However, my genuine opinion is this: Tell your parents that you are the same child that they raised and loved, that YOU have never changed and you hope they will realize that and hope they never feel "like they've done something wrong, when they have not!" Then just tell them the truth. It will not be YOU that lets them down, it will be their own hopes and expectations that will be letting them down. Besides, our parents are at least as smart as we are and may already have a clue, just hoping they are wrong or not bringing it up until YOU DO!
Either way, please save yourself until your of age! OF ALL THE THINGS your parents will worry about, it will be your Health the most!
2007-01-22 11:19:46 · answer #5 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a product of too much openness in a perverted society. When I was your age I'd never even heard of homosexuality. I thought boys were basically icky. I had a chance to enjoy my innocence.
If feel sorry for today's youth. You are constantly bombarded with sexuality and confused ideals.
You are too young to declare yourself bisexual or homosexual. The fact is you were made for the opposite sex. Tell your parents how confused you've become.
2007-01-22 11:04:58 · answer #6 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
your 13 you have years left before you know if you REALLY are just give it time and it might go away. don't get yourself in an unwanted conversation or situation with your parents. It is probably just a fling and the feeling most likley will wear off.
2007-01-22 11:04:37 · answer #7 · answered by a rose with black ribbon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you know you are bisexual at 13
2007-01-22 11:01:41 · answer #8 · answered by Pauline 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Take it easy, see if your parents can take it (if you think they'll disown you or anything wait some years) and then wait for a moment when they are alone (when none of your siblings, if you have, are around) and tell them. Be ready to answer any kind of questions they ask, and be ready to answer them many times, as stupid as they are. Be patient and try not to freak out or anything.
2007-01-22 11:03:14 · answer #9 · answered by Juan 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you think your parents will reject you -- I would not tell them at this time. The first thing to do, you've done -- you've been honest with yourself. I did the same thing back when I was about your age -- and I strongly congratulate you for your self-honesty.
The next thing you should do is what is safe for you in the position you are in. Enough time later to tell them if they are going to reject you for it. You should know what you are and love yourself for now, and as you are sure that a friend is close enough to tell -- share it with those friends.
You are wonderful just as you are, and its all going to be alright.
*hug*
Peace,
Reyn
believeinyou24@yahoo.com
2007-01-22 11:52:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋