Hi i m a male living in US, i got the victim of a pressurised marriage around one year back. Me & my wife had decided for a mutual divorce. but due to some legal complications, we'd be filing for divorce after six months or so. I hav got a frnd of mine, who proposed me long time back & i refused, we discontinued talking each other, as she told me it hurts her & i understood. she knows i m married now. how can i contact her & tell her, my marriage is nothing & its in progress of break-up. Also i know through a common friend only, that her family is looking for her. And by the time i m single, she might be in relationship or married?
2007-01-22 10:46:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
True love will wait for anyone and also for the right moment. I would get one thing cleared up (your divorce!) prior to trying to start a new relationship with an old flame. Since it has been over a year already since you have talked to her , there is a good chance she has moved on emotionally and/or with another relationship. A lot of things can change in that time frame. Just be careful of her feelings as the worst thing you could do is hurt this girl twice!
2007-01-22 10:50:57 · answer #1 · answered by chick33 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi be open with her , as you see getting married has to be for the right reasons caring, love, you have to go with you heart tell her how you feel tell her to plzz wait abd how you feel about her, its easy to marry a friend without being in love and that is what happen to you, that you gave in to the pressure there was never any love but with you lady friend she knows its really love she has for you really thats the diffrents here one loves you the wife dont shes just a friend always have to find love before getting married, so talk her the lady who loves you hope she still feels the same way about you before its to late. then make plans togher as you work trough things to be free for you love.
2007-01-22 11:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could some of the problems in this marriage be because you are still hung up on this girl. Deal with the divorce first. If you are ment to be with this other woman, then she will still be available when you are free to be involved in another relationship. Its not fair for anyone involved until things are final.
2007-01-22 10:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by fatbrat64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her to Starbucks for coffee and have a friendly talk with her. First see where she stands, and it will work itself into the conversation naturally. Relax.. don't obsess.
2007-01-22 10:50:24 · answer #4 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two trains should not be allowed on a 'single track'. There could be serious accident in life.
2007-01-22 16:51:17 · answer #5 · answered by kingofuniverse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, for sanity sake, find a cave and live there for a few weeks and clear your mind.
Why jump in the lake with both feet again when you aren't dry from the first dip?
Take it easy and catch your breath.
2007-01-22 10:55:35 · answer #6 · answered by n9wff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be desperate. if she doesn't care for you THAT much that she will get married to someone else other than you, forget her. call her and meet up with her and talk with her. you don't know she could already be married or preggers.
if you can't meet with her, write her a letter--if you can't mail to her house--mail it to a friend of yours and have them deliver it.
2007-01-22 11:17:18 · answer #7 · answered by AM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's for you two to be together, time will be in your favor, so, get your freedom first which will make her happier to see you.
2007-01-22 10:51:38 · answer #8 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
see u have a life partner but the relationship did not work!!!!!! don't disturb the other girl yaar!!! let her live her life in peace!!!!!!
2007-01-22 16:37:30 · answer #9 · answered by Ginger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Phone her and hope she is really understanding and that she will wait and you can move on from there.
2007-01-22 10:55:37 · answer #10 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋