For those who have ended a realtionship to be with someone else?Did it not work out but want to get back with?

Question

the person you but never tell him/her? Why not? Did you feel you hurt that person to much? Did it end badly? Was it Pride? My ex left me,we exchanged hurtful words,we never did before. He left me to be with another girl, one night stand he got pregant,this all happened before we met, but he wanted to be a part of the childs like, and i told him he should,but i never thought he would go back with the mom,someone he didn't respect, the reason he didn't stay with her to begin with. But, now they are not together shockingly. But most of the times the person comes back,yet he never did.I dont want him back because he hurt me so bad, but in a way,it would have been nice to know he regretted it. hes said he was sorry, but i feel he was sorry he got caught, he was keeping it from me, he actually went thru suicidal feelings b/c of this which I helped thru. Its been 6 months of trying to be friends but he stopped talking to me altogether? Can anyone make sense of this? Is he too ashamed?

Answer 1

You never leave the one you llove for the one you like cause the one you like will leave you for the on that they love. And in his instance he left the one he loved even though the fighted ( the baby momma) for the one he like, which was you. Sorry but true. He is probably sad about it. He probably avoids you because he does not know what to say. Just give him his space, try to get on with your life because holding feelings in the end foe someone else or harboring hate toward someone else could get in the way of you finding someone that is right for you. Take this as a learning experience and grow from it. Do not become bitter.

Answer 2

You are looking for approval for the break up, and now you are left holding nothing once again. the old saying shame on you for doing this to me . Shame on me for allowing you to do this again to me. so get over him and wish him well and out of your life