Im a teen i live in the suburbs and go to a school that is half hick in the country and half rich big mansions. And i have grown up here and my parents arent ghetto at all they moved from the ghetto tho a long time ago like in the 70 but. im mixed but iv been dating white girls all my life but.. is this going to be a problem when i get out of highschool. like getting girls at clubs and stuff.. i only date hot girls that arent black.
2007-01-22 10:32:41 · 12 answers · asked by Doss 2 in Social Science ➔ Anthropology
You date people who you think are attractive or have things in common w/,you like what you like,no reason to change that for anyone!
2007-01-22 10:37:14 · answer #1 · answered by molliehollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am white and married an Asian. It is usually only a problem with Vietnamese (even though she is Chinese) and red necks. There are always those family members that might not approve but if you are a good guy and aren't too thin skinned, it shouldn't be a problem. I do suspect that it is probably more a problem for a black guy and white girls than my case, but still I don't think it wil be that bad especially when you get older. You might want to avoid rednecks though. I do think you might want to give all girls a chance so that you don't limit yourself. Sometimes when you're young, you don't always know exactly what you want.
2007-01-22 11:26:44 · answer #2 · answered by JimZ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only date hot girls that aren't black?
If that's the case, then yes, you are going to run into problems in the future. Not because you, or they, are the wrong skin color, but because you are choosing dates on very shallow characteristics. Not only will some people take offense to the fact that you are, in fact, choosing them for *their* skin color and not, say, their personality, but you may well find yourself dissatisfied with the girls who meet your qualifications (hot... not black... only two qualifications, and shallow ones at that) because you are setting the bar pretty low. Try going for someone you get along with - who cares about the color of her skin?
2007-01-25 13:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by somebody 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To put it simply, no. Our society has becoming more accepting of interracial couples. Plus you are biracial so that makes it even less of an issue. I assume your mom is white and your dad is black, because of the "I only date hot girls that aren't black" statement. Just be open to "people" and don't reduce them to racial catergories, you should understand that by being biracial.
2007-01-26 03:28:46 · answer #4 · answered by JT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you'll have a problem--interracial dating is everywhere--not many people (who aren't skinheads, etc) think anything of it. You may wind up dating some Black girls as well as others--we like who we become attracted to--and that could be anybody from any walk of life.
2007-01-22 10:52:45 · answer #5 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you get out of high school you will discover that girls of all races can be attractive. you should not limit yourself to white girls. you are really missing out on meeting some really great people. since you are biracial you should already know that.
as far as dating outside of your race, it will not be a problem if you don't let it. there are going to be people who disagree with it, but that is their problem. you have to live your life for you and not worry about what others think.
2007-01-22 10:47:05 · answer #6 · answered by miss lady 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say no. I fully approve of it because it allows you to be multicultural and experience things in a different light. I am 15 and the way I see it is if you love them then it matters very little as to their race. My dad is half black, half white. My mom is black with native american in her... so naturally i am totally mixed. It doesn't matter, follow your heart. It usually leads to true happiness. And that's what matters most.
2007-01-22 10:41:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a growing trend of interracial dating at colleges. I live near a city w/ lots of hispanics, and there aren't any problems here with interracial dating
2007-01-23 21:22:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as much as we try to stifle racial differences by saying that we are all the same, we also ignore the realities of life. blacks asians mexicans whites and middle eastern are all essentially different sorts of people that generally cannot mix in a marriage. can we all coexist peacefully and even be friends? YES, but just like billionaire can't marry a pauper because of their strong differences in the way they are used to living, so too different races and and different cultures shouldn't mix through marriage. its possible that you can have a serious relationship with white girls because you grew up so close together with them. Happy fu-king!
2007-01-22 12:37:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You'll meet people of all races that will have an opinion on who you should or shouldn't date, but why should you care? Date whoever you're lucky enough to like and be liked by.
2007-01-22 10:38:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋