often you get nothing in return & some people are not worthy of your kindness...
what do you think??
2007-01-22 10:22:08 · 52 answers · asked by × 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yeah...I've had alot of people take advantage of that and crap all over me...but I still give because that's what's in my heart to do...
2007-01-22 10:24:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'll admit, I do get tired at times of being so nice to everyone.
Some people aren't worthy of my kindness, but I believe in being kind to everyone - what good would it do for me to pick fights all of the time?
I get frustrated because there have been certain times when I should have stood up for myself, but didn't. I'm working on that.
2007-01-22 10:25:18 · answer #2 · answered by Delvala 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do get tired of being nice and good to people who aren't in return but you have to be the better person. And that's what I think. Much Love.
2007-01-22 10:25:25 · answer #3 · answered by none 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why I'm becoming more of an @$$h0I3. It's much more fun and rewarding (but only to the people who aren't worthy of my kindness cuz they give nothing in return...)
2007-01-22 10:28:11 · answer #4 · answered by plehaq 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you need to take some time out for yourself. Yeah, you don't always get anything from the person you are being nice too, but there is more happiness in giving than in recieving. It comes from knowing that you are being a good person, but sometimes it sucks, and if you get too fed up, take a break, You don't have to be mean , but you don't have to bend over backwards to help people that don't appreciate it!
2007-01-22 10:25:21 · answer #5 · answered by juniper 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
U R right, but remember we dont want to be like those people! We R better than that! And we get our rewards al the time, may not be from the people we treat good, but we R blessed by those that love and appreciate us. And remember living the good life is the best revenge!
2007-01-22 10:27:26 · answer #6 · answered by bodacious baby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is a matter of how you really feel. There is no real problem with being nice and good to people all the time if that is how you really feel. People should be real, honest of how they feel. If you don't like being good to people all the time, don't be. If you like to, then great. You shouldn't expect to receive a prize for being good.
2007-01-22 10:28:22 · answer #7 · answered by JC 301186 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that kind of thought provokes chaos and uncertainty. the reason humans set up civilizations is to become closer, not father apart. it's upsettling to see how being kind has taken a back seat to being correct, but not eye openingly shocking.
still, safer to bet on the golden rule
be kind to those wo are kind
and treat the evils of this world with an evil nature all your own
enjoy
2007-01-22 10:26:56 · answer #8 · answered by eveningdin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
personally yes I do.I have spent my life being happy and chipper on the outside so I do not become a burden to others,I try to be kind to all but get so little in return
2007-01-22 10:30:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i get tired of it, but i don't give up, b/c when i am in need of some niceness or some help i will need that good karma. but i think it is funny when i am in a bad mood people think it is so strange. i guess since i'm usually so nice & happy they don't know what to do when i'm not ... too bad for them b/c i am allowed also ...
2007-01-22 10:25:14 · answer #10 · answered by Steph 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'm nice to people on here and then I receive like 6 violation notices in the mail.
2007-01-22 10:25:25 · answer #11 · answered by waxingtheturtle2 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋