me and my boyfriend are always fighting i get so angry at him for no reason, i think hes cheating but he says hes not i get mad over stupid stuff like sometimes when hes usin the phone i think hes talkin to a girl, when it looks like hes thinking about something i always assume it's about a girl, I get so angry with him ive slapped him and hit him, hes a great guy but why do i get so angry?
2007-01-22 10:06:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If you are pregnant, chalk it up to HORMONES!!!
Once the kid gets through wreaking havoc on your endocrinology, you'll likely be a bit better.
If you are not preggers, then get over it.
2007-01-22 10:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by kelly24592 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all jealousy is never a good thing. You need to learn some self-control, especially where physical violence is concerned.
However, I have always said, if your gut tells you something is up - then SOMETHING IS WRONG.
A womans should always heed her instincts.
The fact that he doesn't dump you right now for hitting him either means he has been messing around and your punishment makes him feel better or he loves being smacked around, either way ask youself this question:
Is this the kind of relationship you want to be in?
2007-01-22 18:14:18 · answer #2 · answered by fizzents 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How'd you feel if he got paranoid about you, was utterly convinced you were cheating, yelled at you every time you were on the phone or were just THINKING (for heaven's sake) and slapped you? That's right, you'd trot straight down the police station and call it domestic abuse. You are abusing your boyfriend. It goes both ways, just because he's a boy it doesn't mean you aren't causing him pain and fear. You are beating him for no reason. You need to get a medical opinion and probably medication or counsilling is needed.
2007-01-22 18:13:23 · answer #3 · answered by Emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep it up and he's gonna walk away from you one day.
You need anger management.
He's just a boy friend, take it easy, how old are you all? you behave like a teenager (15 or 16)
Talk to him and tell him how you feel or you will definitely lose him.
2007-01-22 18:18:24 · answer #4 · answered by tewarienormy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has someone cheated on you before? If they have then this is probably why..you're afraid that it might happena again.If not then you might be scared of losing him or you might just be a tad jealous...personally i think you're worried about losing him to someone else.Possibly,you could be a little insecure?
2007-01-22 18:11:40 · answer #5 · answered by xmalteyx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up! Your supposed to trust him! Quit slapping him! You are driving him away probably. Your too abusive! Stop it!
Chill out and quit all caffeine drinks!
2007-01-22 18:14:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should see your doctor and tell him about it.
You may be suffering from PMS or have some other chemical embalance.
It's easily treatable. It sounds to me like that is what's wrong. It's very common.
2007-01-22 18:12:29 · answer #7 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to be the same way! Nothin is really wrong with you, just need to be more secure about yourself so you have nothing to be jealous of.
2007-01-22 18:17:51 · answer #8 · answered by Lila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't trust him, you have anger management issues, you seem like you need to get a life and get control of yourself, if he's so great, why aren't you treating him with the respect he deserves?
2007-01-22 18:19:30 · answer #9 · answered by Krista 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you are jealous. But, you may be on to something. Go with your gut feeling and stop beating him.
2007-01-22 18:11:13 · answer #10 · answered by CK1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋