ok, i just dyed my hair a dark brown (experementing with colour is something ive been doing for awhile) but i also love my skinny jeans and think converse sneakers and vans are comfy... and i ocasionally wear a black t-shirt or sweater. And i do wear dark brown eyeliner, but only because it brings out my eyes (silvery blue). But recently everyones been like 'oh youre so GOTH' and when i walk through the hallways everyones like 'Oh, youre the GOTH'. i dont believe in lables, nor do i think im goth (i have tons of differnt colours in my wardrobe) ive tried to ignore them but they just carry on. ive told them just to shut up, but it didnt work. i dont want to change myself for anyone, but this is really ticking me off! how do i get them to stop?
2007-01-22 09:59:44 · 6 answers · asked by bulletprooflonliness 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
p.s these arent my friends
2007-01-24 10:41:03 · update #1
First of all tell them to look up what Goth is cause you sure as hell aren't is. Second people will always judge others. It's a way of making themselves feel better. The best thing to do, I've learned, is to ignore them and just not care. Be secure with you you are so that no matter what they say it won't bother you. If you like what you wear then say so and be happy knowing that you like it. I know it's easier said than done. I'm still in school and I know how mean people can be to each other, but it doesn't really ever get better so you have to live with it. Learn how to get over everyone else and be happy with who you are. Hang in there. Find friends that will support you cause if then ones you have now aren't then they're not true friends. Good luck.
2007-01-22 10:10:50 · answer #1 · answered by Sometimes I just wonder why... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The sad thing is that they will never stop...im not going to say to ignore them because that just makes things worse, Ive been there and done that and I would just smile and say..."thanks!" and that seemed to make people stop. Don't worry about them, just know that YOU look awesome.
2007-01-22 18:17:24 · answer #2 · answered by Jujuchi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww honny, my friends and i wear those types of things all the time. You just have to ingore them and if it's really hurting you and bitting you up inside, please, go to the school counsler. Or, if you dont have one, go to the local docter's office and they will talk to you. Mabye insted of eye-liner you should try a pretty eye-shadow or mabye put mascara on the bottem of your eye lashes insted. I know it might seem hard, but dont worry, things will get better! ^-^
2007-01-22 18:07:47 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if theyre fat be im not goth you fatass piece of ****
if they have pimples be like im not goth pizze face
if they are ugly be like im not goth ugly duckling
get the pic stand up for yourself
2007-01-22 18:47:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some are jealous. some are just trying to get you angry/upset and
ignore them all. they will not be real friends of yours so forget about them,
2007-01-22 18:05:25 · answer #5 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say "Jealous, aren't you..."
Repeat until they stop.
2007-01-22 18:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by Feeling Mutual 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋