what should i do? I need a girls help and not a guys just so u know for all the guys! I NEED HELP GIRLS!(only 11 yr olds!!!)
2007-01-22 09:55:05 · 10 answers · asked by BlueEyedAngel 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
like, i know. it's really mean! it's because they are jealous and can't act maturely about anything. don't let them get to you. :)
2007-01-22 09:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All girls experience competition at some point in there lives, because you're at that age where if there's a really cute boy, all the girls want the attention from him and for him to like them, so when another girl tries to get at him, all the other girls try to stop it and one of their methods is acting mean. The adolescent years are full of this. I don't know your situation so maybe this isn't the case. Maybe it's your looks. If your a new girl in school and you're pretty, the other girls are going to be jealous and possibly make things up about you so you appear ugly. The only thing you can really do is know how to handle yourself. When something arises that is slanderous towards you, either handle the issue yourself or having another adult help you handle it.
If you have confidence this will shine through you and I'm sure this is something the other girls don't have if they feel they need to belittle you...that's just so they can make themselves feel better.
Hope that helped.
2007-01-22 10:05:08 · answer #2 · answered by H.L.A. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! wow... well telling the truth new girls our new they're like freshman in high school, the only reason girls dont like each other is because there is a lot of drama about gossip and guys, and just talking about each other. u would noe if u watched laguna beach. when a new grl comes every1 thinks they r better than her just because they've been in dat school and the newey hasnt. i mean every1 has 2 start somewhere. i gotta admit, having a new kid gives u the right 2 be the boss.... kinda fun...
11 yrs olds huh? well im 12.. believe me more drama is gunna come on... especially about friends, gossip, people, teachers, and more!!!!
2007-01-22 10:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by dementor012 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl and i'm 12...but what difference does that make?
well to me, girls are mean to each other because of jealousy or puberty
. jealousy is like when they have something you don't have and they just want to just make you never wear it again or with your boyfriend, they might be jealous that they don't have one or that he's cute and they liked him too.
puberty can sometimes create a jealousy patch. she has breast and i do't or when girls are going through it they wonder why they're bodies are changing or under alot of painful stress, trust me i've been through it all !! with jealously and thats all it is
and i agree with everyone else! middle school oh my god is so full of mean girs so worst will come after you and it gets worser then your finally free!! lolz--i was suprised at how mean the girls at middle school can be cause in elementary, your on a shorter leash then as you get older you pull away and your now on your own
2007-01-22 10:06:10 · answer #4 · answered by mischa m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's stange. I'm thirteen and my best friend, Savannah, and I always interduce ourselfs to the new girl and ask her if she would like to sit with us. Today, we got a bracelet from the councler saying how nice it was.
However, to answer girls think of new girls as a threat. Another girl who will get in there way. Although, I assume you are in elementary school this only gets worse through middle school. I suggest to you just being nice so no one can say anything mean about you.
2007-01-22 10:00:11 · answer #5 · answered by flame_alchemist 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that depends how the new girl is really tell your friends not to judge by how she looks
this new girl in my school she is fat(no offence) and has attitude problems and no one likes her
this other new girl is pretty, nice, smart and is hanging out with popular ppl
it so depends on the new person trust me im 12 and i know
2007-01-22 10:11:33 · answer #6 · answered by pammypam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never knew 11 yr olds were so mean to each other if i do't like them i just ignore them or welcome they to our new school and try to make them feel comfortable. It is mean when people make fun of each other some of them do it to be cool or make other people laugh there are stupid.
2007-01-22 10:01:48 · answer #7 · answered by Michelly4you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 13 but some people are just mean and dont like change.
but uh beleive me there is way worse things to come.lol
2007-01-22 10:03:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, im 14...but when i was in sixth grade that never happened. usually girls r mean to new girls cuz they think they're better, or they're probably jealous. u never know.
2007-01-22 17:50:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you 11, cuz if you are, you havent seen anything yet. wait until you get to middle and high school sweetie, they get a lot meaner there
2007-01-22 09:59:23 · answer #10 · answered by melcw592 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋