O.K,so I've heard of pregnancy tests i'm not that stupid!but i took 3 one was faint positive one was negative and one didn't work. I'd be 4 months by now and i heard the hcg levels go down?I've experienced a lot o pregnancy symptoms such as nausea fatigue and I'm sure I've felt movement,somtimes it feels like a rave!I rang a hospital and asked for an ultrasound but the receptionist seemed to think i was stupid she just told me to ring a midwife but I don't have time to do that without my parents being around. And,the ex-boyfriends mum works at the nearest hospital so I have to go to one further away! Basically I just want to know how I can find out for sure. I've put on lots of weight and sometimes it feels firm in places and sumtimes not and I'm sure fat doesn't do that!Plus, I've never been this fat before!!
2007-01-22 09:53:51 · 13 answers · asked by xmalteyx 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I live in England that planned parenthood things only in America!
2007-01-22 10:02:30 · update #1
Do you know what, if you're only 13 perhaps you shouldn't be up.Isn't it past your bed time. What the hell? You're a 13 year old girl I think you'll find the law says you're allowed to have sex at 16 and you know nothing about me or my ex boyfriend I know I shouldn't be pregnant at 16 but I probably am so I need to sort it out not have little girls shouting abuse at me that shouldn't even come out of a mouth of your age.So basically, learn all the facts before you shoot your mouth off- I think you'll find the question was help not Can some little girl please shout abus at me.
2007-01-22 11:01:20 · update #2
In England we have Family Planning clinics. The people there are usually really friendly, and really helpful. They give out free contraception, give out lots of free advice, and I'm certain they do pregnancy testing too. Definitely give them a call, I think this is their site http://www.fpa.org.uk/about/ On their site you can go here http://www.fpa.org.uk/finder/ to find the clinic nearest you. Can't you go to the doctor's office? They'll definitely be able to give you a pregnancy test (for free!) and if they think you might be pregnant then they'll make an appointment for you at a hospital you ask for. Just drop into the surgery if you can, and tell the receptionist that you need to speak to a doctor or a nurse that day about something very urgent, and that it's completely confidential. They will understand, and will almost certainly fit you in quickly with the practice nurse or something.
2007-01-22 10:29:26 · answer #1 · answered by Emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right, the HCG levels do start going down, I believe after 3 months. Maybe you could try 1 more test. Talk to your dr and he/she will do a pregnancy test in office to confirm. You could also talk to an ob/gyn. Some hospitals don't take requests for such things fro the general public, only from medical professionals. Around here that is the way the hospitals work. It does sound like you are pregnant. I had morning sickness until I was 4 1/2 months pregnant, others get it all the way through.
I wish you well.
2007-01-22 10:04:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to someone very close to you who can keep a secret and can take you to the nearest hospital so you can see a doctor about this. If there is no one trustworthy you need to just tell your parents or your mom (because men seem to be a little bit crazy about this topic) and hope that they will understand. You could also go to one of those free clinic thingys or Planned Parenthood, whatever it's called.If you dont want to do neither of these you need to get a good pregnancy test and try it about 3 times. But other than that I think you're pregnant. But you really shouldn't have been messing around in the first place.
2007-01-22 10:02:06 · answer #3 · answered by BowWowschicka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well U Are Very Stupid For Getting Pregnat In The First Plase u Dumb@#$!^@*$&%#$@ Wowo U are Very irresponsible @$$$#%^ WEll Good Luck Pushing Forever! The Pain Will Probably Be Excruciating!My Mom Told Me That And Im 13 And I Have A Boyfriend But I aM Not That Stupid To Go Have Sex With Him And Neither is he But WE Still Love Eachother!
2007-01-22 10:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by soccersweetie0140 C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I were you I'd check for a Planned Parenthood in your town. Also if you check the yellow pages of your phone book for pregnancy testing it may give you the phone numbers and addresses of a few places that will do free testing and exams to underage women. I did that when a friend thought she was pregnant in high school and they were really great about keeping things private. That specific place was set up to ask you about what you would do incase your were so be prepared for people to question what your plans are if you are.
2007-01-22 10:04:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask to retake the hcg levels test it will tell you where you are at and ask for an ultrasound!!!
also you could try going to a local pregnancy center its free confidental and will refer you to someone.
also i dont know how works over there but in america if you call the health insurance they will link you to away to get transportation to and from any appointment.
good luck to you and take it easy, you apper to have the classic signs. and even you are not your health is important no matter what.
2007-01-22 10:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by vkewl182 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to the clinic and take a pregnancy test. That's the only way to know for sure.
2007-01-22 10:04:15 · answer #7 · answered by Chris P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a Planned Parenthood in the area? They are a good option for these things.
Enter your zipcode here to find the local center. http://www.plannedparenthood.org/
2007-01-22 10:00:22 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Sono A ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find a Planned Parenthood near you. They can be very helpful. This is only of course if you can't go to your parents about this.
2007-01-22 09:57:44 · answer #9 · answered by Jenny D 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
go to the doctor for a blood test
2007-01-22 10:08:47 · answer #10 · answered by saphile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋