I married my husband over 11 years ago and proudly wear 2 rings on wedding ring finger, for everyone to see. My husband has had 3 wedding rings in total. He wears none now.
2007-01-22 09:30:16 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some people just do not like to wear jewelry. I was married, and the only day I wore the ring was the wedding day. A couple days later, I stopped wearing it. I just can't stand to wear any jewelry. I never had a class ring, necklace, or any of that. My ex(nothing to do with not wearing the ring) knew this, and didn't seem to care. Or, if she did, she never mentioned it
2007-01-22 10:00:37 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my dad told me that he never wears his ring because he never wore a ring before marriage (class rings, etc.) and doesn't like the feel of it. He also feels that a ring is not necessary to show your devotion to a person, as long as in your heart you know you are devoted to that person. However, he told my siblings and I about a friend of his who would take off his ring when they went sailing together so women wouldn't know he was married. You have to think about the circumstances. Did he ever wear his wedding ring? Does he do activities in which a ring could easily get in the way often? Is he the type of person who would find a ring an unnecessary item to show devotion? Most importantly, do you trust him regardless of his wearing the ring or not? I really do hope that the reason is somewhat like my dad's, because I think it is awful to not wear a ring to deceive other women into thinking a man is single.
BTW, although my answer, especially the parts concerning my dad, may seem naiive, I know my parents have discussed whether or not it is ok for a man to not wear a ring. Obviously they think it is. I think if a women is bothered by the fact her husband doesn't wear a ring, she should talk to him about it, not just go along not trusting him.
2007-01-22 10:51:42 · answer #2 · answered by srgirl6391 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men, dont like to wear rings at all, some becomes habit, my dad stopped wearing his ring at work to stop it from getting broken and then after years it became a habit that he didnt wear it at all, some other men like to have a ring, my fiance actually wears a ring on his wedding finger already, but i dont allow him to wear it at work, although he says when we get married he will definately be wearing it all the time no matter what i say.
I know many men, who just dont like to have rings on because they think it feels like a womans thing to have ring on.
But yes i can see why maybe you are worried, because it looks like they are not married, but honey listen in this day and age if a man is going to cheat the wedding ring will never stop that, you dont need to hide that fact anymore.
2007-01-22 21:35:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am not sure wether this might help, But i"ll try, I am 13 years old, and I am a male, ok, In school last year We made rings and for a while I liked it but now i dont wear it because it seems to feel uncomfortble, I dont know why, but it just feels anoying and strage, so i'm scared that when I get married she wont be happy, but I guess i should get the ring out and put it on and try to get used to it lol
2007-01-22 09:40:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's weird but I am seeing more and more married men who do not wear their ring. I personally don't understand it. I know that my husband and I used to argue all the time and sometimes out of spite I wouldn't wear mine and sometimes he wouldn't wear his. But that is really stupid. I think married people should wear their rings at all times (other than bathing, cleaning or sleeping). A man that is married but is posing to be single may ditch his ring also. A ring certainly doesn't make a marriage, but if you have one you should be wearing it.
2007-01-22 09:41:20 · answer #5 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex husband didn't he used to cheat I always wore my ring when married even though I have met someone now if I go out with friends I put a ring on that finger it is like saying I am spoken for
2007-01-22 09:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by Bernie c 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not defending thos men out there, but many do not wear because of the dangers in their job. They get used to not wearing it and don't think about it on the weekends. Some find that the ring is either too tight now or too loose. All others I would think have come up with some good reasons for not wearing them. Mine doesn't wear his becuase he works with his hands and it is dangerous around machinery. He doesn't think to wear his at other times.
2007-01-22 09:37:34 · answer #7 · answered by oldone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was married I wore my ring when I was not working.At work I would not though.My wife had a hard time with that till I almost lost my finger at work when my finger got crushed between two pieces of metal.The ring cut clear to the bone on the top & bottom,just two little strips of skin on each side.After that from the time I got to work till I left work for the day I no longer wore my ring.She no longer had a problem after that.
2007-01-22 12:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men find jewellery uncomfortable in general and if they play sport ie golf, it feels in the way. My first husband stopped wearing his ring after a year or so as it wasnt comfortable and my present husband of 4 months is still wearing his though he takes it off for gym and hockey and will probably lose it. He is proud to wear it though - for the moment!
2007-01-22 21:05:31 · answer #9 · answered by jaygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure why he would not want to wear one...does he like wearing Rings? If he has worn it before could it be because of where he works...maybe in construction or a job where a ring of any kind is in the way? I think you should talk to him and see why. Good Luck`
2007-01-22 09:43:44 · answer #10 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋