2007-01-22 09:24:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i wouldnt rush it. my freind did that and now her husband only likes the first child. but if you really want one tell him. just make sure your financially ready for a new baby.
2007-01-22 09:28:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My baby # 2 was a complete surprise, and was conceived when baby #1 was only 7 months old! So my babies are 16 months apart. They are now 3 and 21 months old - two boys. I was never scared of having two babies at once because I already had to pack things for the first baby. Adding a second baby involved adding more things to the diaper bag. In the long run though, my boys play with each other and keep each other entertained. It really helps me and my husband because now we can actually enjoy doing other things besides "playing with the babies". If your kids get the chance to grow up close in age, hopefully they will also get along really great and be playmates while they grow and learn. My husband and I don't regret having the babies so close in age. They are the best!
2007-01-22 09:34:25 · answer #2 · answered by monica_au04 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on what his thoughts are. If he wants another baby or not. If he just does not want one now do not rush it but if he does not want anymore at all you need to know which one it is first. I agree that you should not rush the issue. Just talk to him and ask what he wants and see where he stands and when he tells you how he feels about the issue you will understand what you have to do.
2007-01-22 09:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may not be any convincing him if he's made up his mind about one child is as much responsibility as he wants. If you do anything without his permission, you could be left on your own with two kids, so be care full.
2007-01-22 09:32:13 · answer #4 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ithink u should let ur husband deal with it when he feels hes ready for another child sound slike ur being a bit to bossy but good luck any way just cause one person wants it doesnt mean the other is ready for it this is how marriages fall apart
2007-01-22 09:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by bigbreastedbitch1979 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't pressure him. Tell him what you want, and ask what he thinks about it, and realize that there may be good reasons he wants to wait--but you want child no. 2 when you both want it,
if it's to be a good and wholesome experience for your both, and baby no. 1.
2007-01-22 09:30:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't. And don't deceive him!!!!!!.... that leads to resentment, and it will erode your marriage.... and marriages, hon are admiration, respect, passion and for sure TRUST....four biggies... Blow the last one, and all the other three are in the toilet. Every child deserves 2 parents who planned for him... so, hon, you can't... all you can do is share your feelings, and when the decision is mutual, then you plan for your next child....
2007-01-22 09:31:26 · answer #7 · answered by April 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read Dr. Phils advice on "Negotiating for more children"
http://www.drphil.com/articles/article/341
2007-01-22 09:49:31 · answer #8 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would go over all of the pro's and con's together and then figure out if you still want one and if he still doesn't then you should tell him and remind him all of the good things that you have been through with your first
2007-01-22 09:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by casey s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guess number two will happen when its supposed to happen...its just part of life.
2007-01-22 10:03:57 · answer #10 · answered by opyankees_06 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋