and why does women accept to be treated as sluts?
Why after the sexual revolution we need to witness this spectacle of women pleasing men against herselves? And why do they do it? And how can a man respect a woman after seeing this?
2007-01-22 09:21:03 · 9 answers · asked by monis 2 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Yes, for me sex is a very sacred thing, its about exploring, I am not a preaching person, I just find the whole thing very obscene and dirty, as if they thought sex was a bad thing and they had to present it as a degradation of a person, I think sex is a private thing, even if you chose to have sex in group or whatever, it is so disgusting to see someone drunk and pissing around naked and vomiting
2007-01-22 09:27:58 · update #1
steelhead3686
Thanks a lot for the book you recommended, I am going to buy it, really interesting.
Thanks for your responses, very enlightening
2007-01-22 09:40:00 · update #2
It gives them a sense of false-empowerment. Read the book Female Chauvinist Pigs: Women and The Rise to Raunch Culture. It's all about this dilemma.
2007-01-22 09:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by steelhead3686 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it has anything to do with Spring break, really. Women like the attention. Let me spell out the situation for you(generalized, of course). Men like sex, and are attracted to sexual things. Women realized this, so they started acting sexy to get attention. Men got used to this, and wouldn't pay attention to the women who didn't act that way. It became that a woman had to be openly sexual to be popular. At this point, it is simply expected. Women act that way because the attention is seen as positive, and its a good thing to be sought after by lots of men. Society has spelled it out so that a woman is only seen as a worth human being if she's skinny and sexual, and both men and women accept that. Sad, isn't it?
2007-01-22 17:37:34 · answer #2 · answered by paintmeblue719 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Spring break is meant to be a time for college students to relax before finals time comes.
As far as how girls are treated, that is irrelevant, they are treated the way that they act. There are plenty of girls that go on Spring Break and get in no trouble at all, and nobody treats them like sluts. The ones who are treated this way are the ones who behave this way, and as far as I am concerned, that is their own fault.
I also do not know how a man can respect a woman who behaves like that, I know I sure wouldn't.
2007-01-22 17:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by answerman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would agree with "steelhead..." and say it's about false-empowerment, and add that it's about a false sense of validation, as well. In their minds, the "attention" they get "validates" them as women: to them it equates acceptance, and makes them feel like they are "good enough"...of course, they wouldn't need this validation if they had high (self-actualized) self-esteem.
2007-01-23 01:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by wendy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think music and society play a big roll. allot off the music now of days totally degrades women, but they still listen to it, and that is were society comes in sorry
2007-01-22 17:26:34 · answer #5 · answered by mikeymike623 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They weren't this wild when I was young. To me it's an excuse to be away from home, do alcohol and/or drugs, and get wild. It's not only the women who are disrespecting themselves, but the men are disrespecting themselves also.
2007-01-22 17:47:39 · answer #6 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What is the sexual revolution? Is that a real thing?
2007-01-22 17:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exhibitionism. When men do it, it's perversion. When women do it, it's titillating. But either way, its still a disorder, a paraphilia, exhibitionism.
2007-01-22 18:32:20 · answer #8 · answered by Spock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jesus loosen up, its just sex.
2007-01-22 17:23:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋