Girls , If you had a male friend who would like to dress girly, would you help him ?

Question

I ask this because i need sombody who can help me with dressing like a woman (as its somthing that makes me feel good),
and i really need some feminine support,
and i dont know wiether to tell my closest female friend about my urges to express my girly side,
I dont know if she would support it ,and help me with it,
or if she would tell everybody and look at me in discust...

Girls....What would you do if a male friend asked you for help on this ?

First Off, Thankyou everybody for the support, it really is appreciated so much :D
If you would like to message me or anything, feel free to do so..
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And in addition to my question -
Even though i say shes my closest female friend,
We arnt like best friends yet, just really sombody i casually talk to.. if you know what i mean, shes just the "closest" i have (shes part of my band, so the friendship is getting bigger each time i speak to her),
right now im trying to build on our friendship ,before i say anything to her,
but she is definatly the best person for this.

Answer 1

wow, you are cool...! ^^

it takes a real man to be That Brave about expressing themselves..

me as a girl basically doesn't mind looking at cross dressing hobbies, as long as it doesn't bother other people..

some people (like the first guy to answer) may think you're a freak, but it's a free country, and i basically will do what i desire, and you should too..

i simply admire beautiful guys, too.. ^^ need help? give me your email and i'll help with some fashion tips.. ^^

Answer 2

If i had a male Friend in your position,i'd def help him and it wouldn't disgust me in the slightest. If anything i'd think it was great. I've always been told to follow my first gut instinct about everything and i've always done it and not yet got it wrong. If you've got more doubts about telling your Friend than not,then i'd advise against it. If it's the other way around,then do it. Always trust your instincts it's the best way to live believe me,i know. If you're that close Friends then i reckon she's much more likely to support you than ridicule you,if she does ridicule you though then at least you'll know that she wasn't as good a friend as you thought and you'll be better of without her in your life. It's like the saying goes 'with friends like that,who needs enemies'. Hope this helps you decide what to do for the best. Good luck and hope it works out for you.

Answer 3

All my family and most of my friends know that I dress. I have worked as a maid (hence my ID). I don't go around announcing it everyone I meet but if the subject comes up I tell them. I have never had a problem with any ladies but some gentlemen do go a bit quiet.
when I was working I took part in a documentary for Anglia TV which was shown on ITV and most of my work colleagues saw it but it did not cause me any problems just a couple of guys ask me if it was actually me on the TV.

Answer 4

I absolutely would help you if you were my friend. There is something really sad about seeing a guy trying so hard to look fem without any direction. I know a few that have tried on their own, and it really was sad. Once they found some ladies to help them, it was a whole new look and a whole new experience for them. I hope your friend is open enough to help you. However, don't be afraid to experiment on your own. My best friend John, he used to just wear ladies underwear for awhile. Then he started wearing makeup sometimes. Now he spends most of his weekends dressed like a girl. He looks pretty good too. He has fun and he's happy. I hope it all works out for you and that you really enjoy yourself.

Answer 5

Honey, I have at least two good gay male friends, with one of them being such a good friend that I consider him family; if either one of them came to me and asked for help I would give them my unconditional support and do what I can to help them, even though I am majorly femine myself, I am trying to be a little bit more girlly without going over board. If you and this lady friend of yours are really tight, like the one that I consider family and another close female friend of mine are, you should tell her and if she's a real friend, like you're sure that she is she will support you. I have an old saying it never hurts to ask.

Answer 6

If you are a good friend then you would not even have to ask! I would help as much as I could. Be careful with some people though because they can be nasty, know who would use the news to their benefit or for yours. If your not sure and your gut feeling is saying do not do it, wait for a friend you can trust in. I hope all goes well.

Answer 7

yes i would and do with a male friend its the only time i see him happy
he didnt have to ask for my help i offered and he's rather passable but then i have helped a lot of male friends to get their dressing right
feel free to email me and i will help you the best way i can i may not live near you but support is support after all
Be happy and ignore the ignorant prat at the top with the closed mind
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Answer 8

Well I think it would be cute. I have an rpg going and my character is a guy and dresses like a girl all the time. (I know, I watch too much anime!) I would help if a friend asked about it.

Answer 9

Yes I would help. She probably has an inkling anyway. Are you quite feminine anyway? Start wearing nail varnish and pink socks (if you don't already), then it won't be a shock to her when you ask her in a couple of weeks?

Good luck. xx

Answer 10

I completely understand you. i'm a classic looking female, yet i admire rock and exceptionally steel. My famous team is Amon Amarth, yet i additionally pay attention to Iron Maiden, metallica, alestorm, ensiferum, blind father or mother...i ought to maintain going for hours. and each individual that listens to my song or asks me what form of song i pay attention to one hundred% say : wow, you do no longer look decide for to take heed to that form of song. I additionally locate it stressful, and that i do in contrast to while my kinfolk or acquaintances initiate talking approximately my tastes in issues, using fact i've got faith..diverse and unusual. None of my acquaintances have issues in undemanding with me.