2007-01-22 09:19:08 · 13 answers · asked by surveyman5285 3 in Travel ➔ Africa & Middle East ➔ South Africa
If you were going to have an open marriage - why get married at all? Marriage is distincively exclusive. Only 2 people. So if you believe in seeking sex outside of the marriage - I am curious as to why you even bothered getting married to begin with. Suggesting sex outside of your marriage is adaultry. Period.
2007-01-22 09:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
To have relations outside of your marriage is considered adultery, and it is wrong. Now there are people who share the experience with their spouses and they enhance their love life with those experiences. People also thing this is wrong. If you are comfortable in your marriage and you are very secure and positive there this will not cause divorce and feel you can deal with either choice then that is between the two of you, no matter what anyone else thinks. Judge NOT!
2007-01-23 13:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by Lkelly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on both partners. One partners in a marriage could lose all desire for sex thru illness, this is an option as long as both partners agree 110%.
2007-01-23 22:48:09 · answer #3 · answered by cheryl l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm JA
Morally its wrong
Perhaps you have the desire for other people
You do know its adultery.
But hey lotsa folks are doing the whole swinging thing!!!
2007-01-25 06:03:30 · answer #4 · answered by MERCAYDEES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your a christian, yes.
Marriage isnt just a comfortable living arrangement. Its a sacred tradition, joining body and soul. If your partner isnt sexually satisfied with you , then either you up your game or you get divorced and find someone who does and marry them. Marriage isnt all just about sex and what you can get from it for yourself.....
Think about it.
2007-01-23 06:28:26 · answer #5 · answered by cindz_jess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both of you is 110% certain that neither will become jeolous and it is what you both agree on then it is your choice. There is alot of couples that do it and it spices up their own sex life, but then there is even more couples whose relationship gets destroyed by it, so think very carefully about it and please don't rush anything, if you really love each other.
2007-01-22 18:10:48 · answer #6 · answered by stevieboy69 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
thats pathetic. i dont know you and you dont know me so i dont mean to judge but thats gotta be like a serious strike at your ego. you cant take care of your wife so you need to find some other chump to chip in!? jesus christ. just thinking about that makes me sick. makes me wanna hit something. how could someone snoop that low? Id call a quits on that relationship if thats a resort your willing to take.
2007-01-22 17:30:01 · answer #7 · answered by ]{ane 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
What then is the point of being married?
2007-01-23 07:14:45 · answer #8 · answered by moya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends whether you want to go to heaven or to hell
2007-01-22 19:32:13 · answer #9 · answered by jbmmer 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes it is wrong
2007-01-22 17:43:32 · answer #10 · answered by jerry 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋