Because she just found all this gay pornography of mine, so I had to tell her that it was our son's, so now my son is grounded until he stops being gay. I tried watching straight porn but all I could do is stare at the man's penis. So I started working out, hoping that it would cure me, but then I just got gayer.
Please help. I keep beating my wife but that doesn't help at all!
2007-01-22 09:12:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Im surprised anyone took you serious.Tell her when she catches you cornhauling your buddy.
2007-01-22 09:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by Honest Injun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, of all, If I were your son, I would beat your F U C K I N G
A S S if u blamed gay S H I T on me. Second of all, tell your wife, and If I were the son, I know this is nasty but to prove this **** out, I would bring a girl home, most likely a whore, film the sex, to prove I'm not g a y. Ur a freak, blam your son, i would knock your s h i t our no matter how big u where i would hit u with something for putting me in a position like that. u better own up.
2007-01-22 09:33:28 · answer #2 · answered by starbury_crossover 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have got to be kidding!!!!! I have nothing against gays but if that is your life style then why subject your wife to that? I would rather my husband tell me he hated me and always has and has been cheating with WOMEN from the start. I just can not imagine haveing sex with a gay man. I would feel violated to know you just had your penis in another man then came home and had sex with me. It really makes me sick to my stomach. But now that she has found the porn you are screwed. Your poor son is taking the heat for you. You are so selfish, if you don't tell her now then you are a sorry piece of ****! That is a horrible feeling she has to go through thinking her son is gay then she has to relive the fact that her HUSBAND is gay. Those are your rights but she has rights as well and you should respect them! You should be ashamed of yourself. I could go on and on. But I will close with this you need to come out of the closet and clear your sons name and give your wife the divorce you deserve!
2007-01-22 09:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by cherristee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There isn't any good time. You married her under false pretences and now you have involved your son. So the best thing you can do is to prepare a place for you to move to, even if only temporarily, pack enough stuff to keep you able for work, and then tell her, apologize to your poor son, and then leave.
And for crying out loud, why would you think beating your wife would help anything, man. You do need help. And your family needs you out of their lives. Beating your wife is a criminal offense.
If you are determined to be ruled by your homosexuality, that is your decision, but you are being totally unfair to your family, and worse, destructive to both of them, by not just standing up and being truthful and being a man about it.
2007-01-22 09:23:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you should have told her before you married her but since you didn't, I would say now would be a great time to let her know that on top of everything you are a liar too. Why would you let your son's life be ruin to save your butt. Some father you are. Tell her now before she catches you in the act.
2007-01-22 09:19:07 · answer #5 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy, i can work out why he didnt provide you a appropriate call and quantity. You knew he replaced into married top? you in addition to could knew he does no longer depart his spouse and kinfolk for you top? So, what you have suggested is that your mad using fact he gave you a faux call and job. additionally your mad on the grounds which you wished intercourse to make you sense greater advantageous after grandmother died? next, your mad at him using fact he gave you funds to maintain your mouth close? you recognize that $2,000 funds must be seen as blackmail dont you? Do you think of for one minute that your guy is stupid? Do you think of that him being an lawyer that he doesnt have connections to unsavory human beings? Do you think of that he is going to make it easier to harm his acceptance in his regulation practice as nicely as harm his kinfolk existence and insult him in the previous his son? Does this sound like a guy or woman who's stable of their head? chum, you're asking to get harm. Dont enable your jealousy and fantasy get the wonderful of you right here. in case you catch this guy and tension him right into a corner that is going to value him his job his kinfolk and in step with risk a million/2 of each and everything he owns using fact of you, nicely you had greater advantageous get some medical wellness insurance rapid. And while you're at it get some existence insurance as nicely. Dont be stupid. Take the money, as long using fact the numbers are no longer in a row, and use it for a mad trip far flung from that city as quickly as you could. pass to fireside Island or to the Keys or someplace distant.
2016-11-01 00:36:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is pretty crazy, i guess you just have to tell, and let your kid off the punishment, did you know you were gay when you got married? did you think that getting married would make you less gay, had you ever had s** with a guy?? stop beating your wife!!!
2007-01-22 13:14:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you have deceived your wife really bad. Just get some courage and tell her the truth otherwise you will be haunted for your whole life. If she really loves you (which i think she must love you alot), she will accept you as you are. Well, she will be really mad at you at first but after sometime she will realize that you love her alot and you didn't want to hide anything from her. Good luck.
2007-01-22 09:27:16 · answer #8 · answered by dishakr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP hurting your wife. That is childish and the behavior of a insecure, selfish man. TELL HER NOW !!!!!!!! Leave your son out of it. Tell her when he is not home. You are Gay accept it and stop hurting those around you because you are ahamed of yourself. Being Gay is O.K. but hurting others is not !
2007-01-22 09:45:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Don't think there is ever a good time to tell your wife that you are gay, as it seems to me what you wrote that she will not understand.
i think that you should just sit her down and explain about the porn and everything to her as the longer you leave it the worse it will get.
2007-01-22 09:22:13 · answer #10 · answered by princess_kimnus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her and tell her how you feel and that you are gay... Honesty is the best policy. You need to get out and let her go so she can get on with her life.
2007-01-22 09:44:10 · answer #11 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋