ok me and tis dude have been seeing each other for 9 years we was each others first. we even lived together.but about 2 years ago he left it was a bad. breakup we never realy were together. since than.his next girl after me.he cheated on with me.and he seems to have gotten wild in the last two years.there was anther.gril than other then another.any way now im pregnant to him.and every time was with him in the past two years.i ask if ther was a nother girl.he said no that was a lie.i looked on his phone found to other girls. then he amited two haveing sex with then in the past 3 moths. while he was with me.now i let the first gril go.becauce we did get together young at 15.now i hate him but im pregnant to him and he says he wants me. but why could he have not.say he wants to be with me before i got knocked up.and i would not be knocked up to this jerk in the first place if i knew about them girls i feel traped i hate him.what can i do he says he wants it to be just us again.but i dont
2007-01-22 09:08:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds to me like you should have waited longer to sleep with him.
To answer your initial question, yes, there are lots of good guys left. You just didn't bother to wait it out long enough to find out if he was one of them or not. Nothing wrong with that, if you can deal with the consequences. Can you?
2007-01-22 09:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately,youre first time up at bat you struck out big time with a loser. There are plenty of good guys out here. All you got to do is find them and no one out here can tell you how to find one. Sometimes it takes a really "good"girlto bring out the "good" in a man. But the last thing you need right now is another guy. You have a baby thats going to demand alot of your free time so your best bet is sue this guy for child support. He may get visitation rights but its going to cost him big time. Then move on with your baby and then when youre ready again Mr Right will come along when you least expect it. Good luck to you and your baby
2007-01-22 09:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but gonna be harsh here,
If you hate him then you should hate yourself too for being dumb enough to get pregnant by someone you knew is a cheater and never had any intention of settling down.
Love is not blind...just ignorant sometimes.
You just seem to go back and forth, back and forth. If you're serious about leaving this idoit alone, then change your bloody number and stop running after his whorish ****. Ignore him when he calls or stops by.
2007-01-22 09:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get away from that man! Then, you should get therapy! No, seriously! I'm not trying to be rude or calling you crazy or anything. It sounds like you keep going back to him, and he's trying to keep you on his little leash - one little puppy in his pack of breeders!
It sounds like you don't have enough self-respect, or self-confidence, to stand on your own and demand companionship with someone who can be faithful!
2007-01-22 09:15:05 · answer #4 · answered by TheFool 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he likes playing the field, and that lots of girls like how he acts.
Are you intrested in sharing him, cause from what you have discribed he likes different chica...
2007-01-22 09:14:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.
2007-01-22 09:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by john 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋