i don't kno what to do help...
i'm to scared to tell my bff that i'm in love whit her brother,i mean what if she mad or even if she was ok whit it if it doesn't worck out it will be quied of wearde me comming over her house and he will be there...:(
and i 'm going to blow i have been kipping that secret for ever..
Help
2007-01-22 08:54:05 · 8 answers · asked by sam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
In high school i dated my best freinds twin brother off and on for two years.It never effected our freindship. We talked about it before hand and After that we just didnt talk about it to much. You just have to becareful that you dont give your freind to many details (no one wants to hear taht about thier brother) that you dont bad mouth her brother to her, and that you make sure you spend time wiht just her....you dont want her to think you are using her to spend dime with her brother. Its really not as bad as it sounds.
2007-01-22 08:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by Courtney C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u know whether your best friend brother likes u or not,what if he doesn't feel the same way.But if he does then both of u should tell her,it will be even more wierd if u tell her and she told him and he doesn't love u,when u go over by their house.Think about it.Make sure he likes u too ok,before u do anything.
2007-01-22 17:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by pacific30 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg that happen to me once but i was going out with this girls brother.. it lasted for a day. Because of her i had to dump him. but now i toatly wish that i didnt. i say that if she is ur real friend then she wouldnt make a big deal out of it.. but thats easyer said then done. Anyway just tell her that u like him and c what happens from there;; if u really think u have a chance with him then u might loose a friendship;; but if u ont think he likes u that much then just keep it to urself until ferther notice..
2007-01-22 16:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would seem to me that if she is a best friend of yours that if you were to just very honestly tell her that you are attracted to her brother she should understand.
from that point it can be navigated but it is important that your honest with him and he be honest with you. You don't want to loose your friend and you don't need to be hurt by him. So for the amount of talking that perhaps you've done with previous boyfriends - - - triple it for him and set clear boundries on what can and can't be shared with family, be liberal because his sister is your best friend forever.
you need to be able to express your feelings, so don't keep it in; talk honestly
2007-01-22 17:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by dharp66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her. Maybe her brother likes you back. And if your afraid of commitment you could be close frieds. If you know what i mean.
2007-01-22 17:02:33 · answer #5 · answered by Bianca Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend... if she doesn't suport you, then she isn't really the best friend forever... its not healthy to keep in those secrets, so take a breath and get it over with
2007-01-22 16:59:23 · answer #6 · answered by tissna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it always helps to tell the truth. you never know what might happen.
2007-01-22 16:57:56 · answer #7 · answered by Fire Dance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a list of ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
~~~~~~pro's~~~~~~~~~~~~~~n~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~cons~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
~~~~~you fill it n~~~~~~~~~~~n~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~fill it in~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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the anwser these questions !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
r u sure you love him-
-witch would you wrather have him or you bff
-dose he love you ??????????????
hopefully that helped you good luc
2007-01-22 23:13:26 · answer #8 · answered by justmehere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋