ok i just started this Answers! thing, so i dont really know exactly what im doing..
anyways,
so theres this guy that i like and im pretty sure he likes me too. we hang out and stuff and hes been over to my house a couple times. both times that he came over, he was there for more than 5 hours. we watched movies and sporting events on tv and we just had fun.
BUT
even though hes been over, had full conversations with my parents, and even ate dinner with us one time
my parents still wont let me go out with him alone. i always have to take other friends with me.
and i dont understand why...
im trying to figure out if its just because i havent really gone out with guys before and theyre not used to me wanting to go out with them, if they are just extremely overprotective, or if they dont trust me.
he is very respectful, nice, and just an overall good kid.
i just wish i knew why my parents wont let me go out..
any ideas?
2007-01-22 08:35:30 · 5 answers · asked by just wondering.. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im 17 years old
2007-01-22 08:40:43 · update #1
parents are usually worried especially if they think that is gonna be a "serious" relationship. i think what u should do is simply ask them and u will most likely get ur answer.. if u felt comfortable enough to take him home and introduced him to your parents then u have the right to know why they wont let u go out with him..u can also go to them ask their opinion about the guy.. i think u will get ur answers
2007-01-22 08:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your age may have something to do with it. It could be a lot of things. I would ask them why they feel that way and respect their decision because they are your parents. If he is a nice guy they will soon find that out and respect your wishes to date him. You will never know unless you sit them down and have a chat with them.
2007-01-22 16:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by Karen A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they see something in him that looks potentially harmful to you. Maybe they are just afraid to let you be with boys, or think you're too young. You should talk to them about it, because only they can tell you for sure.
2007-01-22 16:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They know what pubescant males are like and are trying to protect you from it. They are trying to keep you away from certain pressures.
2007-01-22 16:41:17 · answer #4 · answered by slov72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probly your age ,that you didnt mention
2007-01-22 16:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by Honest Injun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋