me and my husband have been trying to have a baby what are things that can get me in the mood?
2007-01-22 08:14:11 · 19 answers · asked by Lucky Mommy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
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2007-01-22 08:17:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well every person is different but here are things that get me in the mood, or that my boyfriend will do to get me in the mood!
-A romantic date. Just the 2 of you, somewhere nice or going somewhere you don't usually go. A romantic scenary or going somewhere new and exciting might set things up to get you in the mood.
-Wearing a sexy outfit or lingerie, and doing your hair and makeup nice. When I look good, I feel good. Taking a long, hot shower or bath (maybe together?) taking some extra time to get ready, and dressing up help get me in the mood. Pamper yourself.
-Scents are strongly connected to memory and human emotion. Pick out some scented candles that you really like or remind you of something. Light them at home- this will give ambiance and be a form of aromatherapy!
-Watch a romantic or sexy movie together...I guess soft porn if you're into that sort of thing...but seeing others in love or getting it on may motivate and spark your subconscious to want to do the same thing.
-What always does the trick for me is when my boyfriend takes more time for foreplay and cuddling. What turns a woman on is often different than a man. For me, I really like when my boyfriend gives me a massage, kisses my back, etc. Let your husband know what you like best, and tell him slow is better!
GOOD LUCK.
2007-01-22 08:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by neverneverland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going out for a romantic dinner! Just do something that would be intimate between you and your husband, and then you'll perhaps get in the mood.
I think all it takes is the love for your husband and the thought of having a baby!
2007-01-22 08:19:28 · answer #3 · answered by Ami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, if you aren't in the mood before kids, what do you think it will be like once they're born?
ok, go with some candles, a nice dinner, a bottle of wine, some sexy music and wear a silk robe with nothing on underneath. then just hope your husband doesn't show up for dinner with some buddies from work!
good luck....
2007-01-22 08:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys have any sexy movies...watch just a part of it before your hubby comes home...or watch together a little bit...just to spark the mood. Or do something romantic, have a candelight dinner. Ooorrrr...uh...this might sound a little odd...but maybe while you're in the shower or by yourself, you can get your OWN self going...get hot n horny...lol...and think about your husband. And when you're ready...go jump him. ;o)
2007-01-22 08:18:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CREATE the ambiance:
Greet your hubby at the door when he arrives home with "the mood" set.
Playing romantic music in the background and providing the right amount (intensity) of light are two elements to consider.
Try to set the temperature to the level that is most comfortable to you both, minus 8 degrees (so that your cuddling will help increase the temperature-tolerance.)
AVOID thinking any "WHAT-IF's" - this causes stress to the both of you.
Just see this as part of your commitment to your union together.
2007-01-22 08:31:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a romantic dinner,by candlelight, soft music in the background. You can change to a sexy lingerie that he would melt over.{after dinner}, a bottle of champagne, or wine with dinner, chocolate strawberries for dessert, or anything chocolate, that drives the guys wild.Off to the bedroom with rose petals on the bed, or not. Hot sex for as long as you want it.Then after you guys relax, maybe a bubble bath just the two of you, or shower which ever you pref fer..
2007-01-22 08:32:43 · answer #7 · answered by Carrie G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh I know what you mean. I always make my husband give me a massage. It relaxes me at first but after awhile it starts to get me in the mood and he can't seem to keep his hands off my butt. ! Good luck and have fun.
2007-01-22 08:18:01 · answer #8 · answered by ktbblb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go have a shower, wash away your day, whilst in the shower think about what does it for you about your husband, put on your perfume and a sexy little number, go for it.
Don't let having a baby rule your sex life, have fun.
Good Luck.
2007-01-22 08:22:02 · answer #9 · answered by bambam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take what i call a hooker bath and enjoy the warmth of the water. after have ur husband massage u everywhere. the legs, arms neck the total relaxation will make u so into it. relaxaion is key.
2007-01-22 08:29:25 · answer #10 · answered by sheila, TTC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
candles, romantic music, try taking a bath together then mabe snuggle up and watch some soft porn or romantic movie. trust me it works.. ive tried this many times...oops 4 kids. hmmmmn
2007-01-22 08:29:25 · answer #11 · answered by dwaynelabrosse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋