Ok, this is an honest question people! I'm 5'1" and I have a petite figure, but I have big boobs...the biggest out of all of my friends. I'm Persian, and most of my friends are Indian. When we take group pics, I sometimes feel like I look bigger than them! I hate that!!! I'm not overweight or anything. I'm not saying I look like a model, and I'm trying to lose about 5 pounds(which I go to the gym 3-4 times a week for)...but I sometimes feel bigger than the others. What the hell is up with that??? I'm kinda thinking its just because I have big boobs and most of my friends are very small. It's like when we take pics....you see (small boobs small boobs big boobs small boobs).
Everyone says to be proud of 'em and I am, but I feel so huge sometimes, compared to my friends! Especially since I'm kinda small, they stand out more.
Do any of you girls ever face this problem? Is there anything I can do? (It's not big enough to get surgery, so don't get the wrong idea).
2007-01-22 07:55:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no but don't worry about them they were given to u for a reason. they go with ur body and the man of ur dreams will love them.
2007-01-22 08:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I am a guy but maybe I can give you some good ahvice. I read what you said and am not sure that I am completely clear as to the necessity of you needing sirvice.. But I would like to offer mine.First I think I would have to get a good feel of the situation before I wood continue. Perhaps if you supply more exact details and additional measurements; in particular the numerical meaning of "huge" would be important. A rough drawing or even a picture might prove beneficial. Sometimes a guy can compose a solution that a girl cannot, and although I have never faced your, ah, situation, I have faced somewhat akin deli mas, and I have firmly handled two such situations with all the tenderness that such occurrences deserve. The results, believe me, were very satisfying. Well as I jug along on he road of life I hope maybe one day we can meet. Believe me, I'll know who you are, the one standing out, having to hold your chin up high, looking out of place in the midst of some skinny chicken bone looking rubied well wrapped Indian chick(en)s. Persia rules!
2016-05-23 22:23:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear you!! When I was younger I had the same problem. Now that I'm 40, my boobs are not *as* grossly out of proportion to the rest of my body as they used to be (ha-ha). Actually, layers are bad (as an other poster suggested) because they will make you look fatter than you are. Here's what works for me:
* Lycra is your friend. Look for it in everything -- even pieces like button down shirts.
* V-Necks on your sweaters / shirts, not crew neck. How much cleavage you display is up to you, but this neckline is the most flattering on us.
* DO NOT bury yourself in boyish clothes -- you'll just look fatter in pics.
* Boot cut / bell bottomish jeans enhance your curviness by balancing out your top and bottom halves. Also, wear your jeans kinda long (I'm short too). Old Navy has some great jeans (also with Lycra in them -- are you noticing a pattern?)
* Wrap dresses and tops look great on us, and make us skinny.
2007-01-22 08:27:39 · answer #3 · answered by Carolyn R 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are 5'1" as you said and have a petite figure,,, i guess you are a cup C.. i have 2 of my friends who are facing the same problem. they wear a bra that is called a minimizer (it really works) it can shrink from a cup C to B or from A to B,,, and it might make you feel better about yourself (although I'm one of the people who think that u should be proud of them)
its gonna be like (small boobs, small boobs, small boobs, beautiful boobs, and small normal boobs)
2007-01-22 08:10:54 · answer #4 · answered by bint_bahrainia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B/c some cameras add 10 or 5 pounds.
2007-01-22 07:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wear different types of clothing, maybe layering so that you are camouflaged. Check out the fashion magazines they always have different ideas on how to cover this and make that stand out. Or just relax and enjoy what you were blessed with.
2007-01-22 08:00:27 · answer #6 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a similar problem...except i'm 5'10 and thin. I'm big on top but the rest of me isn't. I hate it in photos when it makes you look big but you know you're not. I find wearing balck helps diminish the size of your chest but really, there's nothing you can do about it.
2007-01-22 08:13:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love who you are. Love the fact that you're going to be getting more attention from the guys then they are.
Remember not every guy wants a girl who looks like a rail.
2007-01-22 07:59:17 · answer #8 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because your breasts are the main area in the picture, that stands out the most. You're too conscious of your breast size compared to your friends. Don't worry about it, at least you have some :o)
2007-01-22 08:00:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go - you are who you are and losing 5 pounds may not make any difference. Why are you so worried about it?
2007-01-22 07:59:53 · answer #10 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY I'M AN INDIAN
FRM DELHI
THIS IS NO PROBLEMO THAT U HAVE BIG BOOBS AND UR FRNDS DON HAVE
U SHOULD BE GLAD THAT U R BLESSED WITH FEMALE 'S MOST ATTRACTIVE POWER
DON FEEL SHY REGARDING THAT
IF U WRER IN FRONT OF ME I WOULD HAVE GIVEN U A TIGHT HUG
IF U REALLY WANT TO SOMETHINGG ABOUT THAT SO START WEARIN' LOOSE CLOTHES OR CONTACT ME AS SOON AS POSSIBLE
I'LL TRY TO BOOST UR CONFIDENCE UP
2007-01-22 08:20:35 · answer #11 · answered by 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋