actually i moved to a new city for the study purpose ..and i want to go out for fun ....actually there is no one of my class mates like clubing so i decided to go out by my own ...but some friends here told me its not a usual thing to be there a lone and girls might avoid you ...is that right? ..should i go or i will be like stranger
2007-01-22 07:52:18 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, that's absolutely wrong about girls not liking you. If you go alone you will be far more approachable! Dating coaches always advise their clients to go out alone if they want to meet potential dates. People don't approach people in groups nearly as often.
2007-01-22 08:11:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is alright to go alone, how else are you going to make any friends in your new place? I wouldn't just hang out in the corner being a loner though. Make your presence known, and act like you don't care that you are there alone, be confident, most girls like that. And when they sense it, they will not avoid you, and if they do then they are probably too snotty and not worth your time anyways! Have fun!!
2007-01-22 15:58:03 · answer #2 · answered by melody g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is so strange, get your class mates to go with you until you meet someone then you can then go on your own. I do get that they don't like to go clubbing. I think that It would be a good thing for them to do for you as a friend.
2007-01-22 15:55:42 · answer #3 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you're a part of a new city and you haven't met many people yet. I definitely suggest going out and meeting people!! Just because you're going by yourself, doesn't make you weird or odd. If people stare, don't worry about it. Have a good time and go out and meet people so next time you won't have to go alone and don't feel ackward doing it! Good luck!
2007-01-22 15:56:25 · answer #4 · answered by journeythroughlife85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead. If you go you will meet people who like clubbing. Then you won't have to go alone, you'll make friends who will go with you. It might take a while but I'm sure you'll be able to meet girls too.
Be sure that if you approach girls though, that you tell them you are new in town and that's why you are alone.
2007-01-22 15:57:26 · answer #5 · answered by kiera70 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you say I have lost my friends when chatting with girls. It will make you look less threatening, plus people will not think you odd as in this culture going out on your own can be seen as that. But I think its better to alone than sit about doing nothing - not making friends!
2007-01-22 16:24:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all going alone isn't all that bad. Girls would take it as a sign you are available. But if you're uncomfortable by yourself make friends at da club (preferably someone the girls are all lookin at) and hang out with him.
2007-01-22 15:58:23 · answer #7 · answered by Horsecrazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine, the only issue is, there are those clubs where it makes it easier to have a wingman, or backup as we used to say. I would'nt let it stop me though, I crawled the clubs alot solo and did fine, you just need to have a little more game than if you are with somebody.
Why? ellifino...
2007-01-22 15:56:34 · answer #8 · answered by Tim H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its better to go with people for certain, but you will probs meet mates on a night out. So do it if it makes you happy. I always feel like a loser if im sat on my own for whatever reason
2007-01-22 15:55:00 · answer #9 · answered by Pete aka arab_uk 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its fine... it shows you are confident enough to go to a club alone.. some guys wouldnt do that because they are afraid of feeling out of place and shy... if u can do it.. u feel confident enough to go there, meet people and have a good time.. so be proud. i think most women would admire that too.. confidence is always a good thing
2007-01-22 16:27:02 · answer #10 · answered by NYCGUY27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋