My wife and i have now been separated now foe five months, our conversations have gone from i hate you don't call to her now saying i need to think and i will call you... she still hasn't called.
2007-01-22 07:41:44 · 17 answers · asked by john d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She likely is starting to run out of money and has found that there is no other man better than you out there. She'll be back. The real question is do you want her back.
2007-01-22 07:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by hottimesforallwomen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, you are wishing for the moon. If she was coming back she would be calling. You want her back. My son in law, wants my daughter back and she has a boy friend. I hate that she is cheating on him, but he won't admit it. He says he doesn't care , he loves her and wants her back. He is hurting so much it is awful . Just like you. You want something that she does not want. You can't change them only you can change. MOVE ON.
TWO little words that is so hard to do. I know the pain. too. I do not think your wife is softening. I think you are hoping. You have to live with what is real in your life and it is going to be without your wife. Be prepared when she finally tells you it is over. Don't set your self up for more pain. Protect yourself and your assets, I am sure she has. I have told my son in law the same thing. If you do not take care of yourself no one else will. Good luck and God Bless . Take one step at time and move on with out her.
2007-01-22 15:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married to this woman before and it was so bad that we can't even worked it out and I want divorce and my ex wife want to be separeated that all but fine so I told her leave me alone don't bother me and don't do nothing. for 3 years later she finally came to see me and said want divorce... I knew that she didn't love me anymore because if I said that and If she just still see me and stuff and shows that she still loves me.. but if she didn't come see me because she listen what I said. Before i left she won't listen and still do and so I end it. so I was happy.
I remarried to a woman i been married for 9 years and 2 kids and 3rd due 2 more months. Guess what.. My ex we only been married for 8 months and seaprated for 3 years.... and no kids. So, so she might find someone else and knowing this will not be back to you anymore.. Just like me... so. I hope you be ready for this if she didn't called and you might have to end it.
2007-01-22 16:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not going to want to here this, but I, too, am separated and I just say nice things like that because I don't want to argue anymore with him, but there is absolutely no chance in hell this guy will ever get me back. If she doesn't call you then you're the only one in the relationship, sorry.
2007-01-22 16:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to say because I don't know why you are separated to begin with. she might just be tired of fight or yelling all the time at you. Since you say she has not call you
2007-01-26 15:38:25 · answer #5 · answered by Chyka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then this is what you do (only a suggestion)...give her a certain time limit in which she can call you to discuss. if she hasn't called you by that certain time limit then you need to move on with your life and stop waiting for her.
2007-01-22 16:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While she is thinking about calling you, concentrate on working on yourself and fixing whatever needs to fixing that help to break you guys up.
2007-01-22 15:46:21 · answer #7 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully she is thinking
send her a picture of you and her during happy times
It will make her think better
2007-01-22 15:46:53 · answer #8 · answered by Dave ! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that takes alot of time for a woman to give in and forgive just give her time and if she truley loves you and wants things to work she will give in
2007-01-22 16:03:11 · answer #9 · answered by lilshorty5366 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let her contact you, if she doesn't you know its over. If you have children however you need to stay in touch.
2007-01-22 16:11:07 · answer #10 · answered by chemky1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋