I am may wrong but when a women sexual abuse as we call in the USA of the kids most of the time they enjoying their first time having sex but when a men abuse of a little girl is negative experience that they never forget.
probably i just think like a man that been sex involved since i was 12 and i do not have any fustration i still enjoy sex.
2007-01-22 07:35:00 · 6 answers · asked by Best Dominican 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ok, I THINK what you're saying is that if a woman were to have sex with a 12 year old boy, then its just him 'getting laid' but if a man has sex with a 12year old girl, he's a paedophile... yes?
Admittedly with kids growing up and acting like adults its hard to draw a line under a certain age. However, regardless of how you reacted to losing your virginity there is still a MASSIVE difference in life experience and knowledge between adults and those still at school.
To assume a 12 year old (or even a 16year old for that matter) has the appropriate understanding of the physical and emotional aspects of sex is naive. They may talk the talk, having watched episodes of sex and the city or whatever but its very unlikely they understand the implications.
So, whether having sex with a 12 year old has a negative effect on their development is arguable on an individual basis BUT as adults, we have to acknowledge that they ARE still children, are NOT capable of making informed decisions and THAT is why it is illegal- for girls AND boys.
2007-01-22 07:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by spagbolfordinner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I have to agree with British 100% ...just because you are black doesn't mean you can be unintelligent and get away with it. In fact you bring the black race down by doing so.
With that said. sexual abuse is just that. The fact that YOU still enjoy sex as an adult doesn't mean that everyone else does. You are basing a general topic solely on YOUR expierence. I know someone who was raped by a friend at the age of 14 and he STILL has problems at the age of 50. I would venture to say that your "first time" was in fact a pleasurable expierence for you...that isn't always the case. When you have the expierences of other's rather than basing your opinion totally on your own then maybe you can speak for everyone else.
2007-01-22 07:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time for you to start a new life! Dating sites are strange, sometimes you can actually meet a decent guy on there, but most of the time they are single for a reason. Just be careful, and make sure if you do decide to start talkin to someone on a dating site, to meet in public the first couple of times. There are a lot of things you can do to make friends. Join clubs (even a gym) take some classes, or depending on you, go out to clubs and bars. I've met some amazing people going out on Saturday nights, but I would never try to meet a guy at a bar. Meeting new people there is easy though.
2016-05-23 22:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"First-time sex" is not abuse in the sense that paedophilia is. But if a woman aids and abets a man to commit sexual abuse of children, or if she makes a habit of it herself, then of course she should be treated with the same severity as the man.
2007-01-22 07:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by artleyb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't understand the question! But I read that you really like sex.
2007-01-22 07:44:10 · answer #5 · answered by angle2005star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know your American but could you please try writing in PROPER English??? My 4 year old can write better!!!
2007-01-22 07:40:43 · answer #6 · answered by British & Proud Of It 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋