just the other nite me and my boyfrend had sex, and often we dont use a condom...i try to get him 2 wear one but he either takes it off or refuses to put it on...im so worried that i might b unlucky and get pregnant this time.....what do i do??? i dnt want my mom to kno...should i really be worried???
2007-01-22 07:32:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
get on birth control its also your responsibility not just his and if he refuses to use a condom or doesnt want to wear it the whole time and you tell him to and he doesnt respect it then dump him he doesnt respect you or care if you get pregnant and how many days since you had sex if its within two days you still might be able to take the morning after pill which is called plan b.. please get on birth control if you dont want to get pregnant its both you and his responsibility
2007-01-22 07:38:14 · answer #1 · answered by jennifertrinitysky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you do not want to get pregnant, either stop having sex or insist he wears a condom or he gets none. It's your body, take responsibility.
Secondly, not only will you be preventing pregnancy by using condoms, you will also be helping to prevent diseases. Don't be fooled. You don't know where he has been or who he has been with and vice versa. Have you both taken the time to be tested for all STD's?
Third, if you don't insist on him wearing a condom and don't get on the pill or some other form of birth control, you will be responsible for another human life.
Stop worrying, go to family planning or some other place and get the facts.
2007-01-22 07:49:10 · answer #2 · answered by Nepetarias 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand when you say that you try to make him wear one. Stand up for yourself and your body. If he doesn't wear one or takes it off then tell him to get off. You control your body!! Also have you thought about STD's that you could get. Respect your body and make him respect you and your body. If you tell him to wear a condom and her refuses then refuse to have sex with him. It is your call but don't expect people to feel sorry for you if you are not willing to stand your ground. If you are that worried then go see a dr or take a preg. test if it has been long enough.
2007-01-22 07:49:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok its your body and if you really wanted him to use a condom you should tell him no condom no sex. your too young for a baby right now if you dont want your mom to know you are sexual active and yes lol any time you have sex unprotected your taking a chance of not only pregnancy but stds as well and dont think it cant happen to you cause it can and if you dont chnage things sure enough it will. its your body your choice not his
2007-01-22 07:58:50 · answer #4 · answered by cute redhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any unprotected intercourse can result in pregnancy. All you can really do is wait and see, unless you feel like you want to take the morning after pill, but this only works if you haven't already ovulated and it has to be within 48 hours of the intercourse.
Good luck!
2007-01-22 07:36:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should think about going on the pill? any unprotected sex at all can get you pregnant, everyones cycle is different. Try not to worry too much about it though, worrying will do you no good at all.
2007-01-22 07:38:04 · answer #6 · answered by jacks my boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you said you dont want your mom to find out, I take it your a young teen.
You should always worry when your young and dont use protection.
Remember - No glove, no love
2007-01-22 07:40:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋