my husband was locked up for 2 years and during that time i started sleeping with someone else. now he's out but i cant stop sleeping with the other man. we have some great sex and i told myself from the jump not to get attached cuz one day it would have to end but now i dont want it to. so do i tell my huisband or should i just keep seeing this guy?
2007-01-22 07:27:52 · 12 answers · asked by Dutchess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if your good at hiding a secret then go for it but you better start choosing which would you want to keep or else it be a messy life ahead of you
2007-01-22 07:32:05 · answer #1 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep in going the way it is you are playing with fire and will surely get burned. It depends on what you are looking for in a relationship. You say you have great sex but do you love the man and want to spend all your time with him or do you want to be with your man who just got out, which I imagine after being locked up, may have the potential for some great sex. Once you know what you want you will have to choose. Good luck.
2007-01-22 15:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by sweetlaughter434 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, are you in love with the boyfriend? You just state that you have great sex. If it's just sex you want / wanted......well, then your hubby is out of jail now so maybe you and him can have great sex. If you're in love with your boy toy, well that's a different issue. You can always get great sex somewhere. Give your hubby a chance. There is a difference between love and sex.
2007-01-22 16:21:22 · answer #3 · answered by BroHam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best if u are going to see the other man, to get a divorce, and stop the deceit, just have to pick which one u want to be with, and leave the other one, but it may not be possible to keep both of them,just dishonest, and will eventually come back and bite u.
2007-01-22 17:45:50 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop seeing the lover and stay with your husband or get a divorce from your husband and marry the lover.
2007-01-22 15:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by Slim Jim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always remember your vows (I offer you my solemn vow to be your faithful partner in sickness and in health, in good times and in bad, and in joy as well as in sorrow. I promise to love you unconditionally, to support you in your goals, to honor and respect you, to laugh with you and cry with you, and to cherish you for as long as we both shall live.) your husband being locked up is a perfect example that thru bad time you shouldnt be cheating but supporting him. I hope that you are wise and come clean with your husband and try to start out fresh.
2007-01-22 15:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by MJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD KEEP THE LOVER ON THE SIDE.
BECAUSE YOUR JAIL BIRD HUSBAND MIGHT END UP BACK THERE AGAIN. THEN YOU'D BE RIGHT BACK TO SQUARE ONE.
2007-01-22 15:35:37 · answer #7 · answered by sweetbabykitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jerry! Jerry!
2007-01-22 15:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by •√¡rgő• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didnt read ur thing cuz it was long
but u go to hell fer adultry crazy *****, ya ima church man so kiss mi ***
2007-01-22 15:33:19 · answer #9 · answered by HO HO HO, Merry Christmas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your husband... so he can quickly dump you as you do not deserve him.
Your actions are vile!
2007-01-22 15:31:35 · answer #10 · answered by venom! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋