Im shy and not-so-outgoing (because i moved to a new school) how can i become funny and talkative? any tips?
2007-01-22 07:12:52 · 12 answers · asked by aaa 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
lmao... how did u know.. im taurus..
btw maybe there was a mis interpretion from many
forget that i said im shy
Im not the kind of person who walks looking at the ground. i have plenty of self-confidence. The problem is that im one of those serious and quiet (and smart :D) ppl and i have some friends but since at my age (middle school) most ppl are still immature, it hard to find ppl like to who share interests, etc. so in order to make more friends and be more popular, i want to be funnier and more talkative
2007-01-22 11:18:56 · update #1
lmao... how did u know.. im taurus..
btw maybe there was a mis interpretion from many
forget that i said im shy
Im not the kind of person who walks looking at the ground. i have plenty of self-confidence. The problem is that im one of those serious and quiet (and smart :D) ppl and i have some friends but since at my age (middle school) most ppl are still immature, it hard to find ppl like to who share interests, etc. so in order to make more friends and be more popular, i want to be funnier and more talkative my quesiont is, how?
2007-01-22 11:19:04 · update #2
You are in a perfect position, decide what kind of person you want to be from now on and be that person. Pretend to be funny and outgoing, practice on all your new classmates and soon you will be that person.
2007-01-22 07:18:15 · answer #1 · answered by lisateric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...I think it is mostly the people that you hang out with and if you think you could tell a good joke or not...some people are outgoing and talkative but don't even know it.. they can say something and some one start laughing and it be funny and they may never even think of it like that. I am very outgoing when I have something little to drink when i go out and I am very talkative...all you do is say excuse me when you bump into someone or like for example when I am in the restroom with alot of girls or whatever I just start talking about my shirt or compliment someone on something...but no one can make themselves be funny...or outgoing...it's just who you are...as you grow older you get to learn and know new things then things start to make sense and then you put 2 things together and then thats what you get ....sometimes its hard moving to a new school.. it's just like starting over.. and you don't know anyone...but as time goes by you will get to meet new people and so on...try joining the cheerleading team or some kind of activity in school.. That may help also!
2007-01-22 07:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying you are shy because you have moved to a new school? I was once quiet and not so out going. I lacked self confidence. Start believing
in your self and your abilities. Make friends with
people who love to laugh. You'll be loud and easy
going soon. Consider joining a group that you are
interested in like a theatre, music, book club,
run for student council, something like that.
2007-01-22 07:44:42 · answer #3 · answered by Precious Gem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question. learn new issues. artwork your way as a lot as being humorous and practice being outgoing perfect you may. finally after some humiliation you'll see the way you've replaced. do not hardship about feeling stupid because interior the Bible God says to have humiliation so it is no longer a foul element purely something which will throw you ahead once you least assume it. :)
2016-10-15 22:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure how old you are but if you are old enough then I would try going out in the evenings more and maybe invite your new classmates round to your house dinner. Try to invite several people so that it is not intense for you, but not too many in case you get (unintentionally) ignored. I would say 4 is a good number.
2007-01-22 07:22:20 · answer #5 · answered by Panz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are not learned traits. You either are or your not. You can become more approachable. Walk with your head up (don't look down at the ground when you walk), shoulders straight (body language speaks volumes), Smile when you make eye contact with people and just be yourself. Cliche` but very true.
2007-01-22 07:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by Love United 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, It will be ok. Just be urself and allow urself to be shy right now. Ur aloud. Its a new situation for u and u will soon feel better and fit in more with time. Its a lot of pressure to be in a new school and try to fit in but u will in time. Just take it cool.
2007-01-22 07:20:33 · answer #7 · answered by jane h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to know Ur types of self.............then open ur self.bec when a person knows ones own personality and is willing to share ideas,thoughts,feelings and values with others.
decide ur object.
say hello 1
share ur dreams,desires,hobbies,and ambition
help others
be practive all the times
smile ,,,,,smile a lot.
keep small sucesses on going
keep winning ,keep winning
2007-01-22 07:49:24 · answer #8 · answered by monalisa s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are an earth sign then its pretty much impossible (capricorn, taurus, virgo)..
which you probably are asking that.. if not there is hope and read the suggestions above
2007-01-22 07:23:12 · answer #9 · answered by TheAnswerGuy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get invove with new people, choose those funny person to be your friend, you are with funny stuff in you only need to develop
2007-01-22 07:16:22 · answer #10 · answered by yiufdbgkhfjj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋