Okay. I have this 'aqcuaintace'. I don't think we have friend status yet. I've had a on and off crush on him since the beginning of the year. Every single time I see him, he gives me butterflies and I feel really floaty. (Cloud 9, if you will.) Drop dead gorgeous would be an understatement, with his messy jet black hair and forest green eyes. I look at him and say 'he's so sweet, fantastic, all that I've ever wanted'. But when I talk to him, I think 'wow, this guy's a real idiot. I don't think I should have ever liked him at all.' But then when I walk away and look back at his gorgeous face, him laughing, I really can't stop looking and I think of how fantastic he is. I can never think of a topic to talk about with him. I act all loserish and snort-laugh around him and when I am near him there's ALWAYS something wrong with my hair, breath, or clothes. I don't know how to feel or what to do. Do I like him or not? I
2007-01-22 07:02:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's like; from afar, he's gorgeous and perfect. When I'm around, both him and me are losers. Sometimes I decide I like him...other times I don't...I just feel really weird about him. We can't even be friends.
2007-01-22 07:03:59 · update #1
I'm a total nerd with no fashion sense and no basic personality. It changes with the people who are around me. I'm not funny or talkable to around him like I am to other people, I'm just weird.
2007-01-22 07:05:19 · update #2
I HATE HIGH SCHOOL.
2007-01-22 07:05:49 · update #3
First off, you're not wierd, just nervous. It's normal. Second, you need to relax and be yourself. He will either like you for who you are, or he won't. If not, then it's his loss. Try to think of things that make him seem more normal to you so that you can relax and talk with him. He's a person same as you, and has his own set of fears and things he gets nervous about. For all you know, he may really be an idiot, but until you can calm yourself enough to get over your nervousness the chances of you finding out are lessened. Super cute he may be, but lets not forget you are equal in that you have lots of your own talents and assets. Relax. You will be fine.
2007-01-22 07:15:22 · answer #1 · answered by Dfire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay, let me start by saying that you dont like this guy, you just like his appearance, and apparently you two appearance doesnt mesh well, but thats not to say that you should give up, go ahead and step it up, make sure your hair and breath is on point and you wear something that appeals to him. although u do those things, he might find u cute but that wont change the fact that he is an idiot, and you would be settling if you get involved with him just for his looks, because u will end of miserable.
2007-01-22 07:17:37 · answer #2 · answered by Rygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok if you think he is an idiot when you talk to him then your relationship in a romatice way would fail because your only liking him because of how he looks. You have to have something else behind the looks if you know what I mean. Just be friends with the guy who knows maybe he is only an idiot because hes neverous and doesnt know how to act around you to because he likes you.
2007-01-22 07:09:22 · answer #3 · answered by The_Morbid_One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he likes you and is only a idiot around you. you kno like you (no offense) like when you'r around him you are all loserish and then when you arent your back to normal.
ok be confident and MAKE him be comfortable around you
how you described the guy reminds me of Harry Potter btw
2007-01-22 07:12:51 · answer #4 · answered by <3pirate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've heard that saying "good from far but far from good? If i were you just use him as a boy toy, he is a guy he wont be too put off by a girls hair, breath, or clothes.
2007-01-22 07:07:22 · answer #5 · answered by tomhale138 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't connect with him intellectually than I wouldn't bother. You will get board with him! Looks aren't everything!
2007-01-22 07:07:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋