I found e-mails referring to affection and signed hugs and kisses an love
2007-01-22 06:50:42 · 33 answers · asked by colts fan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If my partner was sending and rec'ving emails signed "hugs/kisses and Love"......I would be asking alot more questions than is an online affair cheating. .....
He shouldn't have to be corrosponding hugs/kisss and love to another woman, so yes, therefore my answer would be YES...it is a form of cheating and online things can become quite explicit (if they choose to be=-cyber sex etc.....and perhaps eventually meeting for real)
I'd be talking with your partner and find out what's really going on and why they need to feel the need to have an online affair?? Do you not fulfill their needs enough?
2007-01-22 06:57:30 · answer #1 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say it's more than just buddies writing each other. Your spouse is playing a very dangerous game, at your expense. They may not think nothing of it in the long run, but they do have the other person going. I would e-mail the other person back, without telling your spouse, and introduces yourself. Yes it is cheating. Apparently your spouse doesn't think it's a big deal if you can find the proof that easy! You have every right to break-up this little love affair IF your married, if your not, I guess your on your own. Good luck!!
2007-01-22 07:04:16 · answer #2 · answered by sue d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That depends! In the English language words like "affection", "love, "hugs and kisses" can have many connotations and definitions. I can "love" and have "affection" for my friend, my relative, my parent, my child, my mate, or my pet. I may also kiss and hug any one of the above. However, if the context in which those words are used is romantic or sexual in nature, the answer would definitely be a resounding YES! It doesn't have to proceed to the actual physical act of sex to constitute "cheating"! If two people agreed to exclusivity in the relationship, then any other relationship with the same or similar characteristics (expressions of romantic or sexual implications), existing simultaneously, is cheating.
2007-01-22 07:24:24 · answer #3 · answered by arcticsunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!!!!! some say that it takes penetration* for cheating but that would be a physical infidelity, in emails is worse there is no sign of phisical attraction so it is all emotional. the love is mostly lost or put in jeopardy. i have a friend that signs like that but im sure that she is a friend. i love my gf and she is aware of whats going on. if he hides this then worry if its in the open then be a little jealous and talk with the person. be careful. talk things out if u are not sure. i hope things arent what you think because that will seriously suck.
2007-01-22 06:59:54 · answer #4 · answered by MAX 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes an on line affair is an affair, it is still cheating, maybe not in the physical sense, however it is an emotional affair which is just as horrible.
2007-01-22 07:08:24 · answer #5 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is breaking the rules.
For some, it could be an online set of emails. For some, like my wife and I, even sexual relationships wouldn't be cheating if the relationship is cleared with the other one ahead of time.
The key is to sit down and discuss what each of you considers is acceptable and what isn't. Then there is no question when something occurs.
2007-01-22 06:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is cheating. But yourself in your spouse shoes. Would you want your spouse having an affair on line? If you are saying and doing things on line that you would be ashamed of having get back to your spouse it is wrong. Always remember what goes around comes around. You may think it is fun and games, but if it can hurt someone don't do it.
2007-01-22 07:01:44 · answer #7 · answered by springer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well what do you think? How did you feel when you read it? Did it make your heart sort of stop and did you get a lump in your throat? Then it made you uncomfortable, so whether its cheating or not its wrong! And how do you know its stayed online? Sorry to hear this just do what your heart tells you to do, and ask questions and listen to the answers my bet is you'll know if they're lies.
2007-01-22 07:00:02 · answer #8 · answered by Tamra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
100% without a doubt yes. This person will probably say anything to get out of her mess but yes its cheating. Maybe if you havent brought it up yet you should do a little more investigating, watch her history and maybe think about a key logger so she wont be able to deny it. Good luck and Im sorry shes a loser.
2007-01-22 06:57:25 · answer #9 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, just as damaging to a marriage or relationship as a physical one
2007-01-22 06:58:29 · answer #10 · answered by sassywv 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋