To date hot girls, do I play up their insecurities or just be confident?

Answer 1

The #1 rule is, unless you are a pro, or look like Tom Cruise and Brad Pitt, don't expect her to say yes the first time you ask her, and be prepared to wait a week or two for her to come around and agree to date you. Confidence will override any attempt you make at her insecurities. Confidence will get them every time, treating her like crap and playing on her insecurities might work, but then again, she might have a big brother(s) who will pound you into worm poop if they catch you saying or treating her in any way that doesn't make her feel good or be like a princess. The first time she comes home crying because you treated her like crap, your doorbell will be ringing with her brothers on the otherside, and they will work on your insecurities.

Don't ask her out in front of her friends, she will be pressured to answer yes or no based on what her friends think. Don't approach her at a dance, or a night club...you have to talk to her when she is alone, in public (don't break into her house!!!)

A hot chick is usually the loneliest because she gets tired of being chased by the players and the nice guys never ask her out because she is hot. If she is hot and has a date every night of the week, she's a tramp and you'll probably catch an STD.

Women want someone who on the outside is mysterious and a little dangerous, and on the inside is a big mushy teddy bear for her only. She will say yes to a first date with a mysterious and little dangerous guy, but never to a mushy teddy bear. A little dangerous means someone who will drive a little faster, or rebel against the rules, not someone who harms people or animals, or swears like a pirate...

If you ask her out, be prepared to get rejected, even tho she wants to say yes. She doesn't want to appear desperate, and she doesn't want to come across as a tramp, so she might say no to see if you will chase her.

Women want to be chased.

Repeat after me: Women want to be chased.

If you chase too long, she will never agree, she will think you are obsessed with her and that will scare her off. If you give her a second try something like: "I know we started off on the wrong foot, so I'm prepared to start over. Hi, my name is Brad Pitt".

Be funny, women want to have a guy who can make them laugh, its just more fun.

Give her at most, 3 tries for a date, when she rejects you the last time, tell her that it would have been fun to go out but that you don't want to be a pain in the "a@@" so you won't ask her out again. Don't be mean, dont be rude, be a gentleman, she wants to know how you will react to her saying no, she is testing your type, testing your character. She won't go out with a little dangerous guy who carrie a gun and swears at motorists, or meltsdown because she said no to a date. If you blow up in front of her, or in private, you need help, find a therapist, not a date, or date a therapist!

After she rejects you the third time, THEN DONT ASK HER OUT AGAIN. If you see her around, simply say hi and move on. Act like your done with asking her out, act like your not mad, not upset, your happy and well adjusted. Act like she is the one who missed out.

If she is curious and intrigued, she will make the next move. It could take a few weeks for her to approach you, be patient. She will approach you and talk to you about anything stupid, or she may even ask you out or make a joke that she misses you chasing her.

Thats your queue to ask her out one more time, harmlessly, telling her that you just so happen to have an opening in your social calendar on friday nite that just has to get filled otherwise the tabloids will have a field day. If she is interested, she will fill that date, otherwise, your done, move on, the chase has ended and you need to find another potential date.

Answer 2

The thing girls hate the most is when you act cocky all the time, by being over confident. If you like a girl actually show her that you really care for her because she's her, and not just for her body. A girl doesn't want to hear that she's beautiful she wants to know that she's beautiful. Just remember that and you'll be solid. Don't be too confident, just be a nice guy, it's the best thing to do.

Answer 3

Confidence is key. Usually guys are afraid to talk to the hot ones. Be confident and be yourself. Careful though...sometimes the hot ones get hit on so much it can just be an annoyance you have to learn to live with.

Answer 4

It's a numbers game. The more girls you attempt to date, the more you actually will be able to date.

Also, never pander to them.

Inherently, we all want those things that we are unable to get. If you talk to them like they are not in your league, then you will become more interesting to them. If you wuss out and do whatever they want, they'll dump you or not date you at all.

Some girls will not date you because you're just not their type. Don't view it as rejection. Just view it as a simple case of taste. They may not like spinach, and they may not like you. Nothing personal.

Pretty girls are special in that they get whatever they want. If you join the crowd of pandering males, you're just another face in the crowd. To stand out you need to make them feel like they are just any other girl.

Answer 5

The key is to be confident and funny. Play up their insecurities by playfully teasing them, not being mean, don't take it to far, if they think you're an asshole that won't help your chances.

Answer 6

Both: Every so often you want to neg her (not insult her, but point out a flaw) This knocks them off their pedestal. Also be confident but not arrogant. There is a fine line between the two.

Answer 7

It depends on the girl and her varying degrees of hotness, but generally both.

Answer 8

Date cold ones and "make" them hot ! Can't beat home grown !

Answer 9

hot girls never get asked out because they are hot. just do it, and they may say yes.

Answer 10

No need to play up anything. Be yourself!! No one want's a fake!