Ive been flying off the handle lately, being way too oversensitive and irrational. Not just a little, but A LOT. and its mainly toward my husband. We got in a huge fight last night and I said some AWFUL things and at the time i really felt i meant it. Today, I am regretting it and looking back, its like it was someone else inside me, I wouldve never talked to him like that. He doesnt understand the hormonal thing and doesnt realize that even at 5 weeks I can be tired and having aches and pains. We talked about it but hes pissed! I dont want to be this irrational..its ridiculous! Was anyone else this bad and did your husband understand?
2007-01-22 04:56:54 · 15 answers · asked by tulips♥77 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
it is hard for men to understand the changes you are going threw. I suggest if you are this bad, then you talk to a doctor and get on some meds. It could get worse. Tell your hubby you are sorry, and try to explain. good luck
2007-01-22 05:01:23 · answer #1 · answered by sr22racing 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That grow to be the only actual "symptom" I had to make me think of i could be pregnant. It grow to be truly undesirable remarkable away, yet around 8 weeks or so I leveled off a lot. i'm nonetheless greater emotional than what I regularly am, even though it extremely is not the comparable yelling-at-my-boss, crying-at-enjoying cards-in-the-Hallmark-save, livid-that-we are-out-of-milk style of element that I had those first few weeks. :) All you're able to do is to objective to be rational approximately regardless of your reaction, and think of issues over till now asserting them out loud. there's no element choosing a combat over hormones (whether the greater effective-lovey moments have been some thing my husband appeared to relish). different than that, merely dangle in there. :)
2016-11-26 19:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.....I was TERRIBLE. We got into fights all the time, but when I was in a good mood was when I chose to talk to him about the fights. That way my opinion was unbiased and it helped him understand that when I act like that it was my hormones....HOWEVER...on his side, he doesn't understand at all what its like to have hormones...so when you feel/see yourself started to get really heated and YOU KNOW it's over hormones...CONTROL yourself. I HAD to learn to control those emotions somewhat...or we would have fought constantly. There's a point when enough is enough. You need to learn that and walk away when your hormones get so overly out of control there's no stopping you. Yes, pregnancy has a lot to do with it, but it can become an excuse to be out of control when you want because you claim it's your "hormones". So just watch yourself and explain to him you'll try very hard.
2007-01-22 05:08:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was just like that to my boyfriend while I was pregnant. I found it best to just walk away when you start getting upset. Alot of pregnant thought are irrational and it's best to take time to think about things before saying anything that you don't really mean. I know how hard it is, but my boyfriend learned that when I got in a mood, it was best to just leave me alone and let me be for awhile. Your husband will learn because it will only get worse.
2007-01-22 05:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by peachy4995 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hear you. Your hormones can put you through hell and back.
Your body is adjusting. You should get better by at least the 4th month. In the meantime, explain this to your doctor. Maybe a prenatal yoga class would help. It will relax you and therefore you will feel less stressed. Good luck.
2007-01-22 05:01:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am six weeks pregnant and I am going thru the same rollercoaster ride. I have a 10 yr old son and don't recall this irrability before. I cry all the time, I think everyone is hurting my feeling. I want this over senitive feeling to go away.
2007-01-22 05:02:47 · answer #6 · answered by yhecenia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's ok. You just have to tell him that you regret saying it all but it is normal to be way emotional. Maybe buying a pregnancy book and reading through it together will help him understand a little what you're going through. Good luck.
2007-01-22 05:01:57 · answer #7 · answered by Susan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife was this way. With time we forgive and move on. The problem is if you continue to act this way and never give him a chance to forgive you. Just piling on more crap until it buries him and he leaves. So lighten up. Luckily you should stabilize in a few weeks and be less moody. Then beware of post parden depression and get drugs if you need them.
2007-01-22 05:02:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to your doctor about whats going on maybe they can give you a low dose of wellbutrin to help relieve some stress. I had really bad post partum after my last child and wellbutrin helped take the edge off. I think you need to definetly talk to your doctor about what you are going through.
2007-01-22 05:00:46 · answer #9 · answered by Jackie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 26 weeks pregnant and continue to be irrational at times. My husband is supportive. This is his first child, but my second-
2007-01-22 05:02:18 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋