We have been trying for the last 2 months to get pregnant. We have tried all sex positions and everything but nothing ever works. We want to have a baby so bad!!! Why isn't anything working?
2007-01-22 04:53:23 · 16 answers · asked by Donna B 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Two months. That means you've ovulated, at the most, TWICE. That's not long at all, especially if you have just gotten off hormonal birth control. It takes an average of 6 months for your body to readjust.
The best thing you can do is track your ovulation, and start having sex two days before anticipated ovulation, through five days after. This is one full week of sex, usually starting 12 days after the first day of your last period. You can usually confirm ovulation through temperature and mucus changes. I've included a couple of websites with information regarding fertility and ovulation.
Good Luck to you and Blessings!!
ps Don't stress;)
2007-01-22 05:17:14 · answer #1 · answered by Silverwolf 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pregnancy, like everything, takes time and patience. First make sure that you are in a position to support a brand new baby, and that both you and your boyfriend are at the right stages in your life to deal with this huge responsibility that will take up the rest of your life. Having a baby is no joke, so make sure that you are sure.
Next, you might want to talk to a doctor about concieving and better ways to predict when you might be fertile. It's all about timing. There are even over the counter solutions to help track your cycle and to help you pinpoint the right time to concieve.
Also, it always seems a baby comes when you least expect it! Try taking your mind off the issue and try to enjoy the new situation of living with your boyfriend. Hope this helps and good luck!
2007-01-22 13:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by scottishonion 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you are trying to hard!! and I said it for my own experience, the only month that I finally relax and made love with my husband not trying to get pregnant, just enjoying the moment and not waiting for a positive hpt at the ende of the month!! That's when it happend!! It took us over 2 years to get pregnant!! and it was only because I tried to hard, we did not make love to each other we had sex trying to concieve, so, my best advice is to just enjoy the moment and let it happen!! 2 months is to little time, so give you time and love your partner in all the was posibble and it will happend!! If you are very concerned talk to your doctor about it and see if he can give you some tips on how to become pregnant sooner!!!
GOOD LUCK AND HAVE FUN WHILE TRYING!!
2007-01-22 12:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by Raquel_02 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was off of birth control when we decided we wanted to try for about 6 months and it took us thoes whole 6 months of trying.
i finally talked to a friend and she recommended me to this website www.fertilityfriend.com its actually a pretty cool website.
you have to sign up of course and for the simple plan which i did is free, it will have you chart the first day of your last period and then it will tell you the days you are more fertile and all that! and on thoes days TRY TRY TRY and have fun trying. after i discovered the site it took me 2 months to concieve! im now 6 weeks.
GOOD LUCK it could take a while depending if you were ever on birth control but this site helps!
im not married . i mean were engaged but if you feel you can provide a stable home for the baby and are financially ready as you can be then do it...
your never 100% ready for the baby no matter if your married or not just remember that its a LIFE LONG COMMITMENT!!!
2007-01-22 12:59:29 · answer #4 · answered by AC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that there is something wrong, then I'd suggest that you both go to a fertility clinic and be tested. But... Maybe you should wait a while b4 bringing a child into the mix to see if things work out between the two of you. Having a baby won't always make things better.
2007-01-22 13:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by D.Y. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is not a professional answer and I didn't exactly hear this from a doctor. I was in the same situation about two years back with my ex-boyfriend but we were trying for six months. My grandmother and my mother told me we were trying to hard that's why I never got pregnant. Thats a superstitious answer but old people are usually right.
2007-01-22 13:00:55 · answer #6 · answered by maria 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, boyfriend?? Marry that boy and THEN talk about babies! Please! It will be the best thing for all of you. Second, relax, stressing out over this will only worsen the problem and third, two months isn't that long my friend. If you are under 35 a doctor won't treat you until you have been trying for at least a year. It will happen when the time is right! Good luck and get married! ;o)
2007-01-22 13:00:25 · answer #7 · answered by Melanie 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Please wait!! Seriously. Take it from someone who did it backwards. I got pregnant, then moved in with my BF, then got married...my point is-work on the two of you first, the rest will come. Also think about why the two of you want this baby so bad. A baby is meant to be a blessing.
2007-01-22 12:59:51 · answer #8 · answered by Tabasco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to have a baby then you should get married. Maybe it works for Tom and Katie, but in the real world babies with married parents are much better off. Maybe God's trying to tell you something. Get a dog first and see how that works out.
2007-01-22 12:57:25 · answer #9 · answered by Rebecca G 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
there is cirten times that a women ovulates the body temp has to be rite so lots of floor play is good to get the body temp going a women is usualy ready 14 days after the first day of the last period also some vitems may be good to help good luck dr.gary esper
2007-01-22 13:01:52 · answer #10 · answered by jayinky_69 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋