heres the situation. he loves you, you love him, she loves him, he loves her too. she is away but will be back soon. would you back out and let him figure what he wants or still be with him and give him all your love. fight for it or give it up.
2007-01-22 04:47:08 · 13 answers · asked by me_adoreu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's got to figure that out. Must be hard to be in that position for all of you.
2007-01-22 04:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by Betsy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch that is a tough one, but you have to ask yourself if he is always going to the kind of guy that can love two girls? What happens if you have to go away and he finds somebody else again, will you be willing to fight for him again.
If he truly makes you happy and you don't think that he's the type to do this sort of thing regularly, then by all means fight for him. Also keep in mind that it is a fight and you could loose, so keep your guard up and don't put your heart in until she's gone.
2007-01-22 12:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by tonafun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care about this guy, and want to be in a serious relationship, and he feels the same... then fight for your Love. But the decision is basically up to him... he shouldn't have to choose between 2 girls if ya'll are together. FIGHT and don't give him... or you just might regret it later! Good Luck
2007-01-22 12:50:39 · answer #3 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say leave him space to think... It's better to give space now than later... so none of you would be as hurt as you would if u leave it for later...Let him decide what he wants.. if he loves u know he'll come back to you...if u love him u cant stop loving him but u have the chance to let him choose what will make him happy.. thats the whole point isnt it? to be happy...
Good luck..
2007-01-22 12:51:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him up. It sounds like he's a user. He wants two girls and you shouldn't have to deal with his sexual problems. If she wants him all that bad then let her have him. There are way too many guys out there who will love ONLY you.
2007-01-22 12:53:32 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the moment you have with him. spoil him, love him..and enjoy the "spare time" as if there was no tomorrow but keep in mind that you might not like the answer that he's about to make when she comes back.
When she does, don't settle to be second best......Have some pride....and if he doesn't chose you...too bad for him...that's his lost.
2007-01-22 12:51:43 · answer #6 · answered by Valerie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This depends! Are they married? If so, back out! It probably will not work! If not married, then I'd back off and let him decide, or give him an ultimatum! You do not want to be the other woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He can only really love one, so he knows who he wants and if it is you, you already have him! Sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Good luck, but I'd never be the other woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-22 12:53:35 · answer #7 · answered by whoa,3boys! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it up when its destiny one cant leave the other 4 2 long
2007-01-22 12:50:36 · answer #8 · answered by bighcorleone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too many fish in the sea. I don't know how you deal with the stress! Good Luck! ;-)=
2007-01-22 12:50:57 · answer #9 · answered by Jcontrols 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie you are a fool !!! what makes you think he loves you. because he says so I guess but if he loved you, you would'nt have to share him with no one else If he loved you, you woud'nt be asking this question.
2007-01-22 12:52:29 · answer #10 · answered by Taylor T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋