Is it wrong for a girl to use a toy on herself when she has a boyfriend? I have a toy and i use it but i feel unfaithful to my man because its not his penis its like doing someone else.
2007-01-22 04:26:06 · 7 answers · asked by kayla b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
also, my dildo is bigger than his penis. is that wrong?
2007-01-22 05:19:17 · update #1
Is it wrong for a guy to use his "toy" when his girl is not around? Of course not. Go ahead, have fun and never feel guilty.
2007-01-22 05:07:25 · answer #1 · answered by looloo1122 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not... I think it's great...you're not being unfaithful...you're just pleasuring yourself because he is not available at the moment. I'll bet you if you told him what you was doing, he would probably want to watch, I know I would. If you didn't know it, watching a woman pleasure herself is quite the turn on for a man, and I can gurantee that if you share this experience with your boyfriend, you will probably be in for the best sex of your life because he will be so turned on! So to sum it all up, no it is not a bad thing, you should not feel guilty because sometimes ya just gotta have it but your man is not around.
2007-01-22 12:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by trevor_laforce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heavens NO !! You are completely normal should NOT feel guilty at all !!
Women have needs just like men do. Women need to nut up just like men.
Practice up !! Try different positions experimenting is wonderful. Don’t get yourself into a rut just doing EXACTLY the same thing-same way every time. (over a long time your mind and body may not accept changes and you’ll miss out on some great O’s !!
Get b/f involved too, he may find it a huge turn on helping you get off!
Make sure you're always in good supply of batteries !! Nothing worse than dead batteries right in mid stream !!
2007-01-22 12:59:27 · answer #3 · answered by logicalanswer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never is it wrong to pleasure yourself. Also healthy to introduce toy into your sex life. It is wrong if you are having sex and cannot talk about these things with your partner, This is a sign that your NOT ready for a adult sexual relationship.
2007-01-22 12:31:24 · answer #4 · answered by lil_bitzy_mizzchief 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not wrong. Heck he probably master bates himself.
2007-01-22 12:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by apantheon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, why in heavens name would it be a bad thing?
2007-01-22 12:29:15 · answer #6 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet he would love to watch and help.
2007-01-22 12:31:31 · answer #7 · answered by Hank S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋