I start going out with this guy like almost 3 months ago. We are just friends and when we go out we have a great time together, but, a month ago I find out that I was pregnant (is my ex husband baby) last week I told him about my pregnancy, first he was really mad at me because I didn't told him when I just find it out, but after he said that he wanted to be with me no matter what, even if I was pregnant of my HSB and that he likes me more than just a "friend" But he haven't call me for 2 days now, so I called him and left a mesage, he hasn't return my call either. I think deep inside he is upset with me.....What should I do? should I just leave him alone or keep calling him?
2007-01-22 04:24:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i would talk to him and just make sure that he knows ur sry 4 not telling him.
2007-01-22 04:29:57 · answer #1 · answered by skiffwiff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your x husbands baby? Well...get back together with your x husband unless he cheats on you or beats you. You now have a much greater responsibility and it is the child in your stomach. If getting back together with your x is an impossibility and this man wants to be with you than he will be with you. If he isn't returning your call it's because he either doesn't want to be with you or just wants some space and time to think. Do not crowd him too much and just give him the space he needs. I think you are right, deep down he is upset because he really seemed to like you and you hurt him. It sounds like you got pregnant after you started dating him. That would make any guy upset. I wish you the best and hope everything works out for you.
2007-01-22 12:38:05 · answer #2 · answered by J-Dub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something like that takes some time to process. I would call him one last time and leave a message that says something like this:
Look, I know I dropped a pretty big bomb on you the other day, and if you don't want to be romantically involved with me then I understand, but I would like to keep our friendship. So give me a call when you get this message. If after a few days you don't get a call then you know it is over and it is time to move on.
2007-01-22 12:30:46 · answer #3 · answered by UT FAN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go and see about doing the right thing for you about this baby.
Most guys do not want to hear someone they are dating is pregnant by some other guy..
I would run in the other direction too. This situation could cause terrible problems and most guys don't want the responsibility. They are dating not looking for a wife and family.
Sorry but it is the truth.
You need to go and see someone and get some counsel ling. Having a baby by yourself and raising it is not fun.......
2007-01-22 12:42:35 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men don't like "oppressive" women. FACT ! ( Minority of 10% likes it hihihih ) So don't insist.
I would just leave him a message saying:
I expect your call tonight, lets talk and tell me your opinion.
If he calls: GREAT, continue and with luck, you'll be happy ever after.
If he doesn't call: Wait 2 more days, ( he can be confused ) and if he still doesn't talk, forget it, and move on with your life. More men are avaiable ;)
2007-01-22 12:34:51 · answer #5 · answered by The Filosophers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it a day or two and call him one more time, let him know you understand if he's too freaked out and doesn't want to be involved anymore, and that if he doens't call you back, you'll understand it.
Check with mutual friends to try and find out what is going on too, but don't go overboard with it
2007-01-22 12:28:17 · answer #6 · answered by Khavren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling him and let him be alone he will call you when he have had time to think about this!
2007-01-22 13:12:56 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him return the call and also let him talk but if that does not work call him.
2007-01-22 12:30:24 · answer #8 · answered by star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. If he decides he wants to be with you, he will call you. Good luck.
2007-01-22 12:29:37 · answer #9 · answered by NAN G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him and let hi have a happy life.
2007-01-22 12:27:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋