They couldn't find the heartbeat on wednesday afternoon- by wedneday evening, I was in labor, giving birth in the bathroom. My husband and I both saw the baby, something we really weren't prepared for....now he's back to work and I feel dead inside...
please help....
2007-01-22 04:18:00 · 7 answers · asked by APV 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
i'm so sorry 2 hear bout your loss dear... muz have hit u worse to have seen your lost...
i had a stillborn last yr, ceased heartbeat @ 27wks, induced labour... didnt see foetus as advised by gynae...
my initial days were zombie....
but as you go along, u'll have 2 learn to accept e fact & look on w bright side... mourn, go ahead mourn for your lost & dont be afraid to face & talk bout it...
you've been brave girl..
go go!!
2007-01-22 04:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by angi_wee2 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your loss...I had 2 miscarriages so I know what you are going through. Try to remember that it is nothing you did wrong. A miscarriage is the body's way of know that something may be wrong. Try to keep yourself positive. Stay busy, and be around people that love you and want to help you get through this troubled time. There are websites for support groups if you feel like you need to talk with someone. Good Luck!!
2007-01-22 04:23:30 · answer #2 · answered by luvRoush99 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have been there... so many times... It really hearts not only for days but sometimes for years. Especially, if you are past 40, with no money for in vitro, with no insurance to cover at least the fertility injections. But I am still trying.... I am taking it month by month, little by little, sometimes day by day, grief by grief....
That's my last train... Hope I will get on it!
The best would be to go to some orphanages (Guatemala, India, Russia, Roumania or even here in America) and help sick, unfortunate children. This is your best method! But don't rush to forget! Let it go naturally!
But on the other hand, when I see ungrateful and bad behaving kids with waisted lives, and mean characters, it just makes me feel so angry knowing through how much pain and hopes, dreams and sacrifices their parents went.
Try to visualise light inside your womb. Have a candle lit always by your nightstand, pray or meditate, love and dream.
Neither you nor your husband should lose your hope. Continue to dream and love, and pray.
It's there!
2007-01-22 10:45:53 · answer #3 · answered by mik 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I just went through this same thing back in October. My husband completely closed up and didn't speak to me about it or even ask how I was feeling. I had no one to talk to and didn't even know if I wanted to talk to anyone. I personally think I handled it badly--I just went about my normal day--which for me means having 6 kids in my home for 12+ hours (I run a daycare). Finally about 3 days after my sister-in-law called and was asking for a favor and I'd had enough--I exploded on her and then broke down. She's been though it twice and came and just let me cry and talk for hours. Also, the book I'll hold you in heaven helped me a lot. I'm so very sorry for your loss--it hurts like no one would believe.
2007-01-22 04:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by jilldaniel_wv 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine how you and your husband are feeling right now. Try to look on the bright side. You are at least able to get pregnant and that's the big step. Don't worry many women carry to full term after a miscarriage. Good luck and I will pray for you!!
2007-01-22 04:28:21 · answer #5 · answered by lilsnob8681 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yoga is amazingly relaxing... additionally, there are workshops and issues like that with different women who've long handed by using it and that they actually make it easier to and coach you the thank you to regulate thoroughly. i'm so sorry on your loss, your in my prayers, and that i wish you detect some peace of innovations.
2016-11-01 00:02:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS IS VERY NORMAL. I'M SORRY ABOUT YOUR LOSS. I'VE BEEN THERE TOO. TRY GOING TO A GRIEF AND LOSS GROUP MEETING. VERY GOOD. ASK YOUR DR. OR THE HOSPITAL IF THEY HAVE ANYTHING GROUPS LIKE THIS. JUST TALK IT OUT WITH FRIENDS AND FAMILY. JUST TAKES TIME, I KNOW IT'S HARD.
2007-01-22 04:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋